Hmm..dad?

[Ohthatguy45]

Hey!! Soo em im bi, haah and ive told some of my friends but i dont no how to tell my parents..u c my mam will support me shes doesnt care but my father is a different storie.. I was watching a show on a gay couple and my dad said dont show this to ur lil brother it isnt right..hes a real homophobe...anyyywayy i just wanted to no if yous had any advice on my problem...thnk u!!! :D

[devilsheep]

I don't think you should worry about telling your parents for a couple years, perhaps by then you will be more mature and have a better grasp on your sexuality - not saying you won't be bisexual anymore but you will understand it better and be able to explain it to your parents in a better manner.

If you really must tell them though, start with your mother.. she will help you tell your father.

[William_Evans]

Just stop watchin' this shit :\

[War-Is-Real]

Just don't tell him. That seems hard. But the consequence will be horrific if you do tell him.

[OregonStateDude]

Hmmm, I'm in the same boat. There's just no way I can tell my dad I'm gay right now. I might have to wait until I'm 20 or something.

My dad perceives me as a rough and tumble kid who is interested in sports. I really don't want to shatter that image until I am old enough to deal with the fallout.

[eggy101]

Let your mum tell him

[FullyAlive]

If you want to tell them of course go for it, however is there really any need? Are you going to come home with a boyfriend anytime soon? If not personally I'd say why bother telling them if your dad knowing would only create hassle for you?

[GaryKTM250]

you dont have to label yourself like some article for sale

be you be happy and if that does not suit others thats ok too.

seems every one on this site is labeling themselves
chill people chill

[DerBear]

If you want to tell them of course go for it, however is there really any need? Are you going to come home with a boyfriend anytime soon? If not personally I'd say why bother telling them if your dad knowing would only create hassle for you?

I would have to agree with Louise here.

Unless you are planning on bringing a boyfriend home anytime soon or making it complete public knowledge, then why create this hassle. Yes it always nice to get this weight off of your chest but it is something you have to do now.

If not then I would wait awhile and then re-asses the situation once you decide to go completely public or intend to start a relationship.

It is never easy having a homophobic dad if you are bisexual but you never know, one day you might find that if it is his son he might change his opinion.

[AndCuriousGuy16]

Im in the same position as you and i know how tough it can be. But as what FullyAlive and Silver Assassin said, it would be best to wait especially since your sexuality could change (although who knows). Just live your life as you would if you told him and i bet one day it will all work out! Good luck!

[Darkhorse]

I'm have the same problem I'm probably just going to wait till I move out to tell them or when I get a boyfriend tell them then and just introduce him as my bf... lol

[UnknownBoi98]

My Dad Is Exactly Like That . .

[jojorob]

dads are strong headed and willed so it may be hard

[swaggerman84]

I was bored just thought I should comment but my dad is not like that he would watch it but later hew would wanna watch his news or something about obama

[Joseph69]

I came out to all my friends and then came out to my mum (this was about 3-4 years ago) but I've still not told my dad.
He's not homophobic, but we're not that close and he doesn't really need to know, so I'll tell him another time :P