Pools

[JayBird1]

I was recently hanging out with a friend when he suggested we skinny dip in his pool. He mad a number of suggestive gestures in the pool. Im not sure if he is trying to come on to me. I would be fine with it but im not sure what he wants. What should i do.

[Christheman]

Do what you are comfortable with. Never step out of your comfort zone.

[Michael Anthony]

make some suggestive gestures back at him and see how he reacts

[JayBird1]

Thank you i think ill try the later

[Ben_E]

Well you say you'd be fine with it, so thats a good start I guess. If your both naked in a pool and he's doing suggestive gestures, I think maybe he was thinking of doing more. If it's something you wanna do or try,then if your both ok with it then go for it. The next time you go skinny dipping, just say to him whats the deal?? What was with the gestures last time? If he says nothing then just swim if he says otherwise go with the flow. If your both ok with doing more than swim, then there's no problem at all wit it.

[Sean4U]

Yea I agree with the others, if you guys were OK with being naked and he was making gestures he probably was sort of seeing how you would react....if your OK with it....see where it leads if your comfortable and he is ...just make sure that you aree comfortable with what you do

[Charcharlie]

HAHA I was in the same situation except I was the one who was suggesting . . . The guy wants to but is making it seem like a joke just in case you don't want to, that way you don't see him as weird if you dont want to. Just ask him if he wants to and make sure hes serious when he answers.

[frankrocky]

Yeah, you've been given some pretty good advice, so just do what comes natural and your comfortable with.

[Pyro99]

What do you mean suggestive gestures?

[TigerBoy]

I agree with the 'do whatever you are comfortable with' advice. I hope this doesn't sound stupid, but if you do fool around you'll probably want to take it out of the pool because ejaculate doesn't break up right away in water and I've heard it can block the filters - you don't want to have to explain that kind of evidence (apart from the hygiene side).

[STLACE]

I agree with the 'do whatever you are comfortable with' advice. I hope this doesn't sound stupid, but if you do fool around you'll probably want to take it out of the pool because ejaculate doesn't break up right away in water and I've heard it can block the filters - you don't want to have to explain that kind of evidence (apart from the hygiene side).

Even if that was the case I'm sure it would alot more than a common load to cause it.

[West Coast Sheriff]

Just stay in your comfort zone.:D

[PGHTommy]

Do what you are comfortable with. Never step out of your comfort zone.

Truth!

[TigerBoy]

Even if that was the case I'm sure it would alot more than a common load to cause it.

You are "sure"? Fascinating - so you've got some 'hard' data on semen mapped against filter types and adjusted for pool water volume? It would be hilarious to see (if it really is a problem I bet someone's had to do it for the industry :cool:).

I'm struggling to find any evidence about this rather gross topic personally, but I did come across this which suggests this can be a real problem (identified by a university professor of biology no less)...

http://mentlegeneast.wordpress.com/2012/02/13/fitch-high-school-swim-team-clogs-up-avery-point-pools-with-semen/

While this doesn't go into the volume involved, the relative volume measured against a whole pool of water is only going to change by a miniscule amount whether this was one load or a thousand, and you'd need to factor in the time to break up and potential for a build up over time.

Volume also doesn't alter the fact that the stuff floats around and could give the game away, which really was my primary concern for the OP.

[STLACE]

You are "sure"? Fascinating - so you've got some 'hard' data on semen mapped against filter types and adjusted for pool water volume? It would be hilarious to see (if it really is a problem I bet someone's had to do it for the industry :cool:).

I'm struggling to find any evidence about this rather gross topic personally, but I did come across this which suggests this can be a real problem (identified by a university professor of biology no less)...

http://mentlegeneast.wordpress.com/2012/02/13/fitch-high-school-swim-team-clogs-up-avery-point-pools-with-semen/

While this doesn't go into the volume involved, the relative volume measured against a whole pool of water is only going to change by a miniscule amount whether this was one load or a thousand, and you'd need to factor in the time to break up and potential for a build up over time.

Volume also doesn't alter the fact that the stuff floats around and could give the game away, which really was my primary concern for the OP.

Wow!! I'm not gonna try an top that. You just turned a post into a science project... :p

[Straight]

Go skinny dipping (apparently) it feels great!

[Swagging god]

it does

[wolf man]

i would talk to him about it

[redtukr]

be straight up an ask he might want a stroke but at least tell him ur okay with that or whatever else it might be

[skikid22]

do wat he wants and go from there

[redtukr]

I would ask what is it he wants but before that you should figure out how far you are willing to go i.e what are your boundries and does he understand that

[saul1026]

go for it

[Conor_312]

If you want to try some sexuall thing with him then i would hint it out to him but try and let him make the first move just so that you know he wants to do it aswell

[jojorob]

Its flirting you said you were comfortablle withh it so flirt back sexually not romantically obviously might be weird

[Cycling Penguin]

ask him directly what he wants to do them decide

[speakfire]

If your not comfortable talking to him about but your interested in whatever suggestive thing is he's doing then just do it back and make it obvious and see what he does. I had a friend do something like that but not in a pool and I kind of didn't really react and he never tried again but if you want something to happen I guess you should either ask him about it or show some obvious interest.

[Benm]

say no if you don't want to, but it sounds like he's coming on to you

[brandon121]

ask him and talk about it