Kimberly

[Christheman]

I'm here in the Relationships and Dating forum page to discuss Kimberly. My first girlfriend and my first like really good friend who was a girl. In 7th and 8th grade we became awesome friends we would talk about soo much and then some asshole put the idea in my head to ask her out and i did we broke up a week later and no we aren't friends anymore. I miss her really. She was someone whos company i loved! Now she's no longer in touch with me.

What do i do?

[Noirtier]

You probably don't want to hear this, but I doubt if there's much you can do. If you really want her as a friend again, you can try taking the initiative and getting into contact with her, and seeing if she would be *just* friends with you again. If she isn't willing, though, there's nothing you can do. I know, I've lost a bunch of friends before, and I've tried to be friends again. Some of them accepted me, but others didn't. If they don't want to be friends anymore they're not going to, I'm sad to say. You can't force anything on her.

[Stryker125]

Like the other guy said, you might just have to move on. There's plenty of fish in the sea. Of course there's nothing wrong with contacting her and seeing if she wants to try being friends again, but if she doesn't, it's not the end of the world.

[dontfiguremeout]

Dude, go find her! Tell her what happened, and that you would rather be just friends. Now I know it will take some time to create the friendship ALL OVER again, but if you have patients and really care for her, it will be worth it in the end!

[Foamy]

Dude, go find her! Tell her what happened, and that you would rather be just friends. Now I know it will take some time to create the friendship ALL OVER again, but if you have patients and really care for her, it will be worth it in the end!

This sums it up perfectly. Try to speak face to face instead on te phone or thru text. I find that always works a little bit better.

[Ambrosia]

Explain to her that it was a huge mistake for you two to have dated and that you really miss her company. She should understand.

[FullyAlive]

Explain to her that it was a huge mistake for you two to have dated and that you really miss her company. She should understand.

This.

Chances are if you were really that good friends she's feeling the same way. It just needs one of you to be confident enough to take the first step. That may as well be you who takes it. Just be honest with her see what she says. If for some reason she isn't so keen just forget her and move on.

[Volcom]

wait, kimberly who? just wonderin cause i live in south jersey, im 14, and know a kimberly...

[irishguy123]

I dont think you should get into a relationship with her straight away after not seeing her for afew years because she has probably moved on. But I think if you want to try become friends again then you should try. Then if you become friends maybe then you could have a relationship if you and her both want to after awhile of getting to know each other again

[jegoss02]

dude, take it slow.