View Full Version : The love of my life is moving
West Coast Sheriff
July 27th, 2012, 02:55 AM
Im depressed b cuz the love of my life recently toldme she was moving b cuz her father is a doctor and was layed off and just received a job in Wyoming which he had 2 take. I've known this one girl 4 about 5 months and 4 the last 4 we've been best friends. We expressed our feelings 4 each other and have been dating 4 the last month. . She told me most guys talk 2 her once then ignore her and never talk 2 her again. I am like those guys, I talk 2 girls, get their numbers then text em for a day but then don't call or ever talk 2 them again. Unless I go 2 school w/ them or sum thing. She is the only girl I've ever loved 4 her character and looks. And this saddens me that the only girl Ive ever loved. I wont ever find some girl who I care 4. I will still keep in touch and see her every 2 weeks or so and call her every nite but I won't see her as much as b4.
Desuetude
July 27th, 2012, 10:24 AM
Well first off, I'm sorry she's moving away. It's hard when someone you're close to leaves but you have to remember that they don't have to stop being a part of your life. Try to look at the positive things coming out of this, although there are very few you can't let this take over your life, you have to move on and just try your hardest to accept what's happening.
If you're able to see each other every few weeks then she can't be moving too far away, it could a lot worse and making the relationship long distance will test you, sure it will be a challenge but without hurdles things start to get boring and routine that's when people tend to stray from their priorities.
Calling is a good idea, keep in touch, talk as much as possible but don't stay glued to the technology. Live life, go out with friends and just speak to her when you can but don't spend your days waiting for her to call/for you to call her.
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