View Full Version : lifelong relationship starting at 15?
freefallin
July 27th, 2012, 01:16 AM
im 15 years old and ive been dating this amazing girl for about 15 months and i think she is completely perfect in every way :) i feel like nobody else could be better for me. everything she does is so adorable to me and i feel so lucky that i have a girl like her even though im still pretty young:) i know that i really love her :) i was wondering how practical it is for people who are only 15 to stay together forever? :D
Kevin_183
July 27th, 2012, 01:50 AM
I don't know and Im the same age and i been going out with my girl the for 5 months now and i feel the same way about her
kuperman11
July 27th, 2012, 02:28 AM
honestly its probably hormones but its possible that you could be life long soul mates
Jaycub
July 27th, 2012, 03:17 AM
One of my closest friends is like that with his girlfriend that have known each other since thay were 5 to me it looks like there in love I'm happy for them and there married on facebook ;)
Giles
July 27th, 2012, 06:38 AM
I definitely think it's possible, but it's unlikely. People change a hell of a lot as they get older, I'm not saying that you're not the right people for each other, because you might be, but as you both get older you might find that you don't see each other in the same light as you did now.
DerBear
July 27th, 2012, 06:47 AM
This would be better suited in Relationships and Dating :arrow:
Mortal Coil
July 27th, 2012, 06:52 AM
It's possible, but pretty unlikely. Biologically, romantic love is only supposed to last for about two years. I'm not saying you will stop loving each other, but it's pretty likely that you won't end up together.
Lock
July 27th, 2012, 06:56 AM
Life long relationship?
Chaos42
July 27th, 2012, 08:06 AM
Personally, I don't believe in soul mates, or that there's one person out there that you're destined to be with (but don't get me wrong, I am very open to the beliefs of others, and the idea I could be wrong. This is just my belief)...I believe that you find someone you can put up with and enjoy putting up with, and you stick with them. You make it work.
I think what you've proposed is very possible, as long as both of you have it in you, and are willing to work at the relationship and patch holes (not literally, oh goodness ;) ) as they come up.
Also, my inner country music nerd has been activated. Lee Brice's "Love Like Crazy" is the song I really try to live my life by, and seems suited to this occasion.
Bluesman
July 27th, 2012, 08:32 AM
How practical is it? It's not. However, I feel the same way as you do right now about my girlfriend. The odds are stacked against you in big time way, but that's not saying it isn't possible. Treat her right, be a good guy to her, who knows! Maybe you'll be the one to beat the odds.
Kait-11
July 28th, 2012, 11:13 PM
well 80% of people meet the person they will marry by the time their 15, its just something thatt only time will tell, i was with a guy for two years and he dumped me because i cared about my mom more than him, so things happen, just take your time (:
FullyAlive
July 29th, 2012, 07:25 AM
Its unlikely to happen, but it could do. No one here can tell you what will happen in the future. Movies and books like to tell us that first love can last forever, but in reality you don't know what will happen if you both go to uni or college it'll most likely be in different cities you'll have to work with distance. You've also both got a lot of growing up to do at 15 you may end up completely different people and just not work together.
But really you're 15 you don't need to think about future like that, get through school first. Live in the present don't start worrying about,if your relationship will last your lifetime just focus on being happy in it now.
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