Need some advice

[cmh861]

Hello everyone, thanks for answering all my questions I have been posting.
I got something odd to ask. My dad just came out of the blue today and asked me if I ever jack-off and have sex. This is the most odd question. One beacuse I tought he knows I masterbate and two beacuse we have already had "the talk"
I did not tell my dad anything but what do you think I should do?

[Sol90]

If you feel comfortable then say you do. If you've already had the talk then im sure he will understand.

[cmh861]

But what I dont get is why did he just out of the blue ask me this

[gothicsanctum]

All that really matters is if you are comfortable about it.
Maybie he was thinking over talking to you and finaly worked up the nerve to do it or something

[LatinaVivit]

Why lie? I'm sure he knows anyway, so it really wouldn't make sense to say 'no'. If you feel uncomfortable about it, just say you don't want to talk about it; I'm sure he'll understand.

[jay_]

My dad and I are open. I would tell him the truth if he asked. He already knows the answer :P

[Mr. Awesome]

Best assumption, he saw you with a girl, maybe while you were out and he happened to be passing by, not saying you were on a date, but just happened to be on your own with a female friend.

Also parents do talk to eachother, so if there has been something in the area where someone from your class had sex and the rumour spread, then maybe thats why he is asking

Obivoulsy you can just say i dont want to answer that, but why not ask him why he wants to know, im sure it wasnt comfortable for him to ask you either, maybe he wants to make sure your being safe

[Samstar]

Don't see why he would feel the need to ask then. Perhaps let him know you understand to use protection and have safe sex. I wouldn't feel comfortable talking to my dad about whether I jerk off at all. Tell him whatever you feel comfortable to tell him. Do what you feel is right. :P

[cmh861]

Well I talked to him. He said thanks for telling me and that was it. He seemed happy that I told him. This was one of the most odd things he has ever asked me :what:

[Booker]

Talking to him was the right thing, parent's are understanding 90% of the time.