a friend wont leave me alone

[funyun4282]

So I have this guy friend who Ive been friends with for years who wont stop bothering me. He constantly tells me how much he has fallen for me and even though I have a boyfriend he always tells me I should be with him. What do I do? I have been trying to give him the hint that its just a friendship but its getting annoying.

[FullyAlive]

Stop giving him hints and tell him outright. You have a boyfriend and that's the way its going to stay you have no interest in him. Tell him you like the friendship but if he doesn't stop making comments about the two of you then you will have to end the friendship.
It sounds harsh but if he isn't getting it subtly there's not many other ways to go about it.

[funyun4282]

yeah I already told him I would do that if he wouldnt stop. Guess I really have to end the friendship.

[West Coast Sheriff]

Tell ur friend ur in a relationship

[funyun4282]

he knows my boyfriend so he knows im in a relationship. Im thinking of maybe having my boyfriend talk to him.

[Foamy]

The "hints" you are dropping may be seen by him that you like him. Tell him that you're involved or ignore him for a little while. Maybe he'd lay off if you ignored him for a short time.

[Christheman]

Just be frank with him: look i have a boyfriend and i dont like you that way just lets be friends.

[funyun4282]

maybe after having my boyfriend have a chat with him he will get the picture.

[funyun4282]

My Boyfriend is going to speak to my friend today. I told him to be firm but also nice. I want to try and preserve the friendship but also get it through to him that the friendship is nothing more than that.