I miss him so much :'(

[candabear17]

I met Jacob when I was 12 and I've never met any who I've had as much of a connection as I have with him. We've been on and off for 5 years. We've been through a lot but were both doing very well now. We were together again for about 4 months but he had to move back to California in order to start college. I've never been able to open up to anyone else like I have with him. Were completely comfortable with each other. I love him very much and it breaks my heart to be away from him. He told me he would try to come back every other weekend but it hurts to much to see him leave. I just don't know what to do :'(

[West Coast Sheriff]

U can still txt him and call him
Just note u will b together every other weekend

[candabear17]

I know but it hurts too much to talk to him knowing I can't be with him. :( I know it's rather selfish but I can't handle it.

[FreeFall]

Distract yourself. Go out with friends, take up skateboarding, bake cakes or something. He's going for college, trying to come back every other weekend. That could be some heavy tolls on his finances. And you are with him, just not psychically.

[candabear17]

A week ago I told him that if he does come back into town I don't want to see or talk to him or even know he's in town because it hurts me so much too see him leave. After he moved I stayed in my bedroom and cried for 3 days. He agreed but we haven't really had any contact since then :(

[candabear17]

I know. Hopefully we can get back together once I finish school in 2 years and I'm out on my own but that may not happen. :/

[devilsheep]

You need to establish a life for yourself outside of Jacob. I know this idea may not appeal to you right now, but try and understand what im saying.

[FreeFall]

A week ago I told him that if he does come back into town I don't want to see or talk to him or even know he's in town because it hurts me so much too see him leave. After he moved I stayed in my bedroom and cried for 3 days. He agreed but we haven't really had any contact since then :(
OUCH. You basically told him if you try to see me because you miss me I don't want to see you because it hurts me. He's probably hurting too, probably wanted to see you since it hurts enough to be away. You didn't think about how he felt. Now there's hardly any contact, take this lead and do something you want to do.
You need to have a life outside of him like devilsheep said.

[William_Evans]

Keep texting with him. Learn in your school to get a awesome job and go to California. ;\

[AnnaAbbey]

Talk to him :*

[Donkey]

There's nothing you can do about it really. There will be other guys out there for you, you just have to accept that in life people come and go and while it hurts for a while, you pick your shit up and move on

[Lovely637]

there are plenty of means of communications nowadays. You can chat online, text, call. email. you can also go to his place if you are allowed to.

[FullyAlive]

You need to establish a life for yourself outside of Jacob. I know this idea may not appeal to you right now, but try and understand what im saying.

There's nothing you can do about it really. There will be other guys out there for you, you just have to accept that in life people come and go and while it hurts for a while, you pick your shit up and move on

These.

You can't expect someone to come back every other weekend, its a bad idea. He needs to stay at college, at least to start with to make sure he can handle his classes and make the friends there. He won't be able to do this if he's never there at the weekend.

Look this might be harsh but you are being rather dramatic, it hurts to much to see him leave so you can't see him? That really probably upset him and it was kind of a petty immature thing to say. You could have at least explained yourself in a more mature manner.

But basically if you can't do long distance then its better if its over. You can give yourself a week self pity max then you need to pick yourself up and move on.
Jacob shouldn't be and isn't your whole life, see your friends, take up a new hobby full your time with nice things and forget about him.