I'm Concerned I'm gay? Please help!?

[Noah14]

Ok I just turned 15 this month. Ive always acted alittle Differen than the other guys. I don't like getting rough, wrestling or anything. I like basketball and stuff but I know that has nothing to do with sexuality. When I was maybe 12-13 I started gettin sexually attracted to males. I'm not emotionally attracted them though. Before like 12 I was interested in girls only. Now I'm finding myself getting turned on by penises and stuff. Straight porn turns me on but gay porn does too. I don't want to be gay at all no effence to anybody who is. I'm afraid that I would go to hell.. But anyway, i find myself stalking girls and guys on Facebook haha. I always wonder what other guys penises look like and a lot of times I fantasize about them masturbating too. I don't crush on guys like emotionally but i do sexually. , emotionally I find myself attracted to girls. I know being gay isn't a bad thing but I just don't want to be because I want to have a family and everything. I'm confused because sometimes I think I'm straight and other times idk. It gets to the point where I also panic.
When I see naked girls I'll get that little tingle down there you know
When I see naked guys I get the tingle too...
I'm extremely worried and constantly finding myself on the subject in my mind. Anyone have advice? I'm really concerned. Thanks!


FYI I HAVE NO PROBLEM WITH GAY PEOPLE AT ALL. I support them.

[HOLEinyoursoul]

I felt the exact same way... it's me allll over again. I'm not saying you're on a one way track to being gay, but it sounds like a possiblilty (or you could be bi, I don't know). And seriously don't worry! GAY PEOPLE DON'T GO TO HELL. I'm not a big believer or anything, but if there is a god out there who is said to love all of his children, then he won't damn you to hell for loving a man. Jesus never said anything about homosexuality, he spoke about acceptance. The church created it's hatred for the LGBTQ community, not god. The church does not like anything "different." Anyway I hope I helped you out.

[Stryker125]

Sounds to me like you're more bi-curous than gay, since you're not emotionally attracted to guys. Honestly, I don't think there's really a way to be sure until puberty's over and your hormones balance out. I'd say just relax and try not to freak out about it. Sounds like textbook bi-curiosity. Also, about the hell thing, Jesus loves everyone.

[Racer4life25]

Dude I felt/still feel the same way as you do! Don't freak it and just give it time hormones are raging at this age so you never know!

[Foamy]

Sounds to me like you're more bi-curous than gay, since you're not emotionally attracted to guys. Honestly, I don't think there's really a way to be sure until puberty's over and your hormones balance out. I'd say just relax and try not to freak out about it. Sounds like textbook bi-curiosity. Also, about the hell thing, Jesus loves everyone.

I agree with everything here.

[camilo96]

Dude, I mean, why would any of us be here, on this forum, if we weren't curious. Curiosity is key to a mans life. Your going through a very difficult phase. But it's just a hormone imbalance. Go out, expirament, have fun.but be safe.

Btw, just so you feel even more ok with this, I feel the exact same way as you. So that makes 2 of us :) pm me if you need anything !

[War-Is-Real]

I would say more bi-curious than truly gay. Or you could be bi. :T
Either way, be accepting of who you are. I am ^-^

[Bigswedishboy]

If there is no emotional attraction youre not gay, simple as that

[Darkhorse]

thats exactly how i was but then eventually i got emotionally attached to guys too so now i consider myself bi :)

[gothicsanctum]

Fun fact: Penises have as much to do with sex as Vajinas for boobs
Id call you Staight/Curious, ok. You Really dont sound gay to me!?

[EdwardBi15]

You maybe Bi! (there is nothing wrong with that)

[Gigablue]

You're probably not gay, due to the lack of an emotional attraction. It's most likely just hormones and will disappear after puberty ends. Even if you are gay of bisexual, there's nothing wrong with that.

[Jaysonn]

I would that you are just going through a faze, but there is really know way to tell. You are destined from birth to be what you are going to be. So just embrace whatever that may be.


And some people like anime porn but it Dosent mean they want to be with cartoon characters- just like if you get aroused by gay porn- it Dosent mean your gay- it means you a aroused by something sexual- two people doing stuff like that is arousing for a lot of people
What your aroused by does not totally define sexuality- so what your aroused by all things- I'f your going to put a label on it - let it be 'horny'- if you wanna be straight go out and date girls! If it's not satisfying then you know! Dont let people try and label you with a sexuality- do what you wanna do and decide in your 20's when the hormones calm down!

[SkyFire]

It sounds to me like your bi-curious. But if you are gay, there's nothing to be ashamed of.

[Christheman]

you are just curious no biggie chillax bro : )

[ImCoolBeans]

Puberty for Boys :arrow: Teen Sexuality

[eggy101]

Im in the same boat, its the hormones, but i say curious/bi

[billia]

1. Try to chill, man. Chillin' makes it all seem easier.
2. It's okay if you're gay. If you are, I promise god won't send you to hell.
3. I had all the same worries. I didn't wanna be gay, I was afraid of not having a family, and I told myself that I didn't like guys emotionally. But it's okay with god, you don't have to give up having a family, and who cares if you like guys emotionally? Love is love, right?

Our hormones aren't always nice to us... But unfortunately, we just gotta let them do their own thing. We'll be alright!:thumbsup:

[guycuberguy]

First thing you are only 15 and you can be confused.
Your hormones are acting crazy right now.
Just wait, i dont say it cant be you are wrong i mean just, take your time, you will know