FreeFall
July 25th, 2012, 12:20 PM
I do not like my bf's older sis, and neither does he.
She came home from college yesterday and I was there. I like the rest of his family so while he was showering I was chatting with them. The littlest one (6 years old) was done her food and messy, so I offered to put it in the sink for her. Big sis was in the kitchen talking on the phone, I wasn't making any noise but she still did a huggge huff when I put the plate in. She got off and said hello, so I thought oh maybe she's not as bad as she was last year (she was passive aggressive to me last Christmas) and offered me a cookie she made. Cookie tasted like crap but I ate it anyways. She's not a great cook. Then this happens:
Her: "I'm so happy now that I'm legally able to drink. It feels like life's just hit the milestones. I was worried I wouldn't be able to drink at my brother's wedding."
(She means my bf, he's the only boy. I was embarrassed because I'd though she thought we were going to get married before she turned 21, but nope.)
Her: "Oh, if we're still in touch you can invite me to your wedding too!"
Me: "I'm sorry what?"
Her: "What? Can we drink at babyshowers or no? I'll be bringing the wine when his wife has her's."
Me: "Ahahaha. Yea. I don't think there's much alcohol if any at baby showers..."
Her: "Well, I'll start a new tradition for his family." She gave me this side glance.
Me: "So if I have a baby shower, you want an invite to mine?" (I'm getting pissed)
Her: "Can you even have kids?"
I just walked away. I told my bf and he tore her a new one last night, but the family's sticking up for her. They told him I was too sensitive, sis was just kidding, she needs to get to know me better. The sis born after my bf stuck up for me though, she dislikes the elder sis too. So I see that his family's going to take up for their eldest daughter, understandable, but do I avoid them? Should I steer clear of them until sis goes back to college? BF said he won't let me in his house until she's gone, and as much as I like that I feel bad because he's going to be hashed out for that. They're super family oriented, we not so much, and I know it stresses him out to hear all of that. So should I go maybe once every other week? Even once a month or what? I can't sit elder sis down and talk to her. He deals with his family, and I deal with mine. Plus I'd probably make it worse if I did, I dislike her and her me. She'd probably twist the story up.
She came home from college yesterday and I was there. I like the rest of his family so while he was showering I was chatting with them. The littlest one (6 years old) was done her food and messy, so I offered to put it in the sink for her. Big sis was in the kitchen talking on the phone, I wasn't making any noise but she still did a huggge huff when I put the plate in. She got off and said hello, so I thought oh maybe she's not as bad as she was last year (she was passive aggressive to me last Christmas) and offered me a cookie she made. Cookie tasted like crap but I ate it anyways. She's not a great cook. Then this happens:
Her: "I'm so happy now that I'm legally able to drink. It feels like life's just hit the milestones. I was worried I wouldn't be able to drink at my brother's wedding."
(She means my bf, he's the only boy. I was embarrassed because I'd though she thought we were going to get married before she turned 21, but nope.)
Her: "Oh, if we're still in touch you can invite me to your wedding too!"
Me: "I'm sorry what?"
Her: "What? Can we drink at babyshowers or no? I'll be bringing the wine when his wife has her's."
Me: "Ahahaha. Yea. I don't think there's much alcohol if any at baby showers..."
Her: "Well, I'll start a new tradition for his family." She gave me this side glance.
Me: "So if I have a baby shower, you want an invite to mine?" (I'm getting pissed)
Her: "Can you even have kids?"
I just walked away. I told my bf and he tore her a new one last night, but the family's sticking up for her. They told him I was too sensitive, sis was just kidding, she needs to get to know me better. The sis born after my bf stuck up for me though, she dislikes the elder sis too. So I see that his family's going to take up for their eldest daughter, understandable, but do I avoid them? Should I steer clear of them until sis goes back to college? BF said he won't let me in his house until she's gone, and as much as I like that I feel bad because he's going to be hashed out for that. They're super family oriented, we not so much, and I know it stresses him out to hear all of that. So should I go maybe once every other week? Even once a month or what? I can't sit elder sis down and talk to her. He deals with his family, and I deal with mine. Plus I'd probably make it worse if I did, I dislike her and her me. She'd probably twist the story up.