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Teresa31
July 25th, 2012, 07:27 AM
There is this guy who likes me and he keeps asking me out and following me around and stuff and its really creepy because im home alone alot and he like knows when my parents are gone and he'll come and knock for like 30 minutes then leave and then he'll come back and do it again.
Dabigdtc
July 25th, 2012, 07:43 AM
I think you should just get a friend or maybe a parent and confront him about it and really let him know its not going to happen. But I wouldn't try to do it alone, I doubt he would do something bad but just in case. Make sure he really understands.
crisel
July 25th, 2012, 12:34 PM
You better talk to him and explain that he's not doing good. Let your parents know.
Noirtier
July 25th, 2012, 05:15 PM
There is this guy who likes me and he keeps asking me out and following me around and stuff and its really creepy because im home alone alot and he like knows when my parents are gone and he'll come and knock for like 30 minutes then leave and then he'll come back and do it again.
Ok, um, hun, the behavior you are describing is borderline stalking. Please tell an adult what is going on. Like soon. Because if you don't, he might go even further. When you say he follows you around and knocks on your door for 30 minutes when you are home alone, that raises a red flag for me right there. Please tell an adult, for your own safety and wellbeing, as well as his.
West Coast Sheriff
July 25th, 2012, 05:18 PM
Call the po, it's best yu tell sum1 u propably don't want ur parents 2 know but its best they do
anyone50
July 25th, 2012, 06:31 PM
I agree the next time he follows you or knocks on your door call 911 and report a stalker at your home. better yet get a restraining order if if you have to get your parents involved. Don't be a victim to this guys dillusions
Christheman
July 25th, 2012, 07:35 PM
call the police this is only going to get worse
Mollypop
July 25th, 2012, 07:46 PM
You don't hafta get the police involved if you haven't told him to leave you alone. Tell him to leave you alone first. But yea, if he doesn't get the hint after that, then it's time to talk to the cops.
Iron Man
July 25th, 2012, 07:52 PM
Yeah, that is so creepy. Tell him in person that you need your space, and if you feel uncomfortable doing that, bring friends with you to watch your back. I certainly wouldn't want a creepy girl all over my case...
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December
July 25th, 2012, 10:56 PM
I agree with what everyone is saying. Try and explain to him again that you are not interested and he needs to stop coming to your home, and following you around, and all that jazz. However, you should only confront him if you feel safe and comfortable doing so- if he makes you feel threatened or you really can't talk to him, then you can just skip that part and jump straight to telling your parents and if he persists, getting a restraining order of calling the police if he won't leave you alone. Either way, you need to tell someone. His behavior is unacceptable, and its clearly making you uncomfortable, so it is best not to deal with this alone. I wish you all the best of luck in resolving this ordeal :)
DerBear
July 26th, 2012, 05:43 AM
My advice would be like what others have said here. Try to explain to him simply that you are not interested. If he persists then I suggest you tell an adult, people who obsess can become dangerous and obviously you are slightly afraid and creeped out by that person, so I suggest you tell an adult and see where it goes from that point. I know telling an adult can be upsetting or embarrassing but from what it sounds this guy is creepy and it is always better to be safe than sorry.
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