Lost Another Friend

[Wintergirl_80.0]

my friend, lets call him steve, (i dont accually know anyone named steve but using real names gets your post deleted). so anyway "steve" is mad at me for not dumping my bf for him. i did say i would but i cant hurt my bf that way. plus my bf is here while "steve" is atleast an hour away. but what hurts is "steve" gave up on me.... it went down like this (Im changing peoples names)

steve:what happened to breaking up with Carl
me:idfk idk what to do im so confused. found out jacks going back out with jill imma need someone there at school to hold me togeather.
steve:Ummmm
Ok?
me:long story
me:look
im a horrible messed up person
he is too
he knows how to deal with my break downs
steve:and i cant? oh i no im an hour away
idk what to say mika
me:i do
i fucked up
im sooooo
fucking sorry that my depression gets in the way of everything
steve:I thought you cared
me:i do fucking care cody
but i am also dealing with alot of shit
steve:Im done, i try mika
I just cant handle you unless you try
me:i am trying
fuck it
what ever
this is just another fucking thing ive ruined



yeah excuse the vulgarity. maybe that wasnt the best way for me to handle things but idk :( just soyou know "Jack" is my exbf who i still have alot of feelings for. we broke up months ago but he was my second love.

[eggy101]

Your friend wants you to hurt both you and someone else to go out with them? thats just plain rong he clearly likes you but to approach you in such a manner is just appualing. Let him go, you lose a friend to not hurt yourself, its worth it, no?

[Wintergirl_80.0]

i guess i mean its hard cuz he and i go way back like to 8th grade

[Noxail]

Honey, This boy is being selfish. He obviously didn't give a shit what you felt, as harsh as it sounds. He didn't go into that conversation trying to fix things, he went in there with a bad attitude and not open to new ideas. Those are both horrible things to see in a boyfriend, or even a friend. He wasn't worth your time. Your a sweet person who stood by her boyfriend even when people tried to interfere, and no one can judge that. People come and go in your life, just don't hang on. You got to accept that no matter how long you've known someone, they can still hurt you. Just Let Go ~Holli

[Wintergirl_80.0]

yeah im tryin

[Noxail]

yeah im tryin

:hug:

[HunterSteele]

It's very selfish of him to ask you to dump your boyfriend for him. That's terrible! He doesn't get to choose your boyfriend, you do. Not only is he disregarding your feelings, but he's also doesn't care about your current boyfriend's feelings. It sounds like your current boyfriend makes you feel good and can help you with your depression. Work on developing your relationship with him.

Leaving a friend like Cody who you've been with for so long is hard. But staying friends with someone who would ask you to leave someone you love for their own benefit will do you no good.

[Sol90]

Wow! Sorry to hear this. I hope things work out for the best.

[Wintergirl_80.0]

thanks