so this one night

[lilmandrewl]

i was at my firends house and i have thought to myself a couple times about if i was a homosexual, but the night we were there his older brothers friend who is only two or three years older than me came over with his girlfriend and we all went and got into his spa and while we were in there he kissed by friends older brother, and i always wondered what it would be like to kiss another guy, so i got next to him kinda like i was joking and he went to kiss me so i went towards him and we made out for a couple seconds and i enjoyed it a lot... i've also made out with a couple girls and enjoyed that too... the only reason i kissed him was to test my sexuality but now i'm even more confused than before... how am i supposed to tell? what am i? bi/gay/straight what?

please help...

[Crazysam]

Well just a kiss really dosen't make you gay it makes you curious! as you said you have kissed a couple girls and enjoiyed so dosnt that show you that you are obviously not completley gay? Please dont get yourself worked up about it...

[Serenity]

Yeah, I agree with Sam. A good kisser is a good kisser lol, it doesn't make you gay.

[Maverick]

It was obviously just curiosity and that act alone doesn't determine your sexuality.

I'd say don't worry about labeling yourself and just wait a few years. Your sexuality doesn't really come clear until you're older for some. Just wait it out and see what happens. It's mostly just hormones and curiosity getting you to do impulsive things.

[Learn2Bsmart]

i was at my firends house and i have thought to myself a couple times about if i was a homosexual, but the night we were there his older brothers friend who is only two or three years older than me came over with his girlfriend and we all went and got into his spa and while we were in there he kissed by friends older brother, and i always wondered what it would be like to kiss another guy, so i got next to him kinda like i was joking and he went to kiss me so i went towards him and we made out for a couple seconds and i enjoyed it a lot... i've also made out with a couple girls and enjoyed that too... the only reason i kissed him was to test my sexuality but now i'm even more confused than before... how am i supposed to tell? what am i? bi/gay/straight what?

please help...

I have no idea...You enjoyed making out with a guy, and a girl, maybe your just bi-curious because you like both but are too young to actually be sure...

[byee]

I don't think you can make much of this one incident. All it means is that you did something you wanted and enjoyed it. Your sexuality isn't determined by just one thing!

This event got you thinking, which isn't such a bad thing in general. So, you might start by asking yourself what it was about this experience that you enjoyed. See what you come up with.

[lilmandrewl]

well what i think what i enjoyed was that it was something different than i was used too... but i also think i disliked it because it was something that if anyone found out would humiliate me and make people think i was gay, even though i'm only bi-curious/straight. i guess the mix between the two makes it hard to decide what i want to be..

[byee]

well what i think what i enjoyed was that it was something different than i was used too... but i also think i disliked it because it was something that if anyone found out would humiliate me and make people think i was gay, even though i'm only bi-curious/straight. i guess the mix between the two makes it hard to decide what i want to be..

Maybe you don't have to decide anything, then, and see of the urge comes over you again.

At 14, I think everything seems sexual, which is natural. just because some of those urges might be directed at other guys does NOT make you gay. Homosexuality is more about emotional attraction than sexual attraction.

[Serenity]

Maybe you don't have to decide anything, then, and see of the urge comes over you again.

Pre-cisely. One experience doesn't mean all of a sudden you need to reevaluate your life and your sexuality. You have a lot of time to figure out your orientation, don't worry.

[Some Guy]

I would never do that again if I were you.

[theschmizz]

its ok to do it and doesnt mean ur gay or bi or wutever

[Trickster]

i agree wait a bit and see which one your happy with. One kiss doesent prove a thing you need something much more deep. Your hormones are just being crazy, i kno it sucks.

[Unknown_kid]

to the guy who said, not to do it again:

Why shuldent he?

Give me one good reason...

your being a jack ass trying to decide the fate of someone...