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Professional Russian
July 23rd, 2012, 04:57 PM
Yeah i know i dont post here very often and dont expect sympathy or any of that fun stuff but rather a solution to the problem.

My Dad is a drunk. After we had to put my aunt(She was pratically my dads mom he lived with her for 43 years) in a nursing home my dad started drinking alot. i dont mean like 5-6 cans of beer a day i mean he drinks anywhere between 10-15 cans of beer a day plus the beer he has at the bar. And when he finally comes home from the bar at 7:30-8:00 PM hes a total asshole. he'll take random stuff he'll take my computer, my moms money, my money, and then he start complaining about how ive done nothing when ive done more then him all day. most of the days during summer vaction i have to balance what he wants and what i need. He wants all this shit done that he can do him self but since im turning 16 next year ill be allowed to drive but i dont have a car. I always talk about my deuce but fucked that up beyond repair on memorial day weekend. aside from i need to make money. ive stopped working becauses my bosses brother waas being a total asshole to me him and my dad have a problem with each other so he'd have me doing a bunch of useless shit that shouldnt be doing. I was in the machine shop for a reason. and aside from work problems my dad makes me do his jobs here at home instead of letting me go make money. so he comes home the bar all buzzed up and a total asshole starts complaining and starts taking my stuff my moms stuff. it doesnt matter to him. when hes not buzzed up hes not an asshole but when he is it sucks to be here.

So how do i fix the problem. I would have punched him like 30 times by now but i know if i do he'll shoot me.(not meant to be figuritive he'll literally shoot me.) so what do i do....

Listed MIA
July 23rd, 2012, 06:28 PM
Well, i still think you deserve sympathy for having to live with an alcoholic father, so here, have some ----> sorry you have to put up with that. it sounds really bad. and unfair.

Thing is, there is pretty much nothing you can do. except move out (got any other family you can live with?). or convince your mother to kick him out. It's not really your problem to fix. tbh i think your mother should be getting you both out of the situation. what does she say about it? if i was you i would try and get a job that started at like 7pm or something so you can be around him as little as possible. sorry i don't have anything more helpful to say.

Professional Russian
July 23rd, 2012, 06:51 PM
Well, i still think you deserve sympathy for having to live with an alcoholic father, so here, have some ----> sorry you have to put up with that. it sounds really bad. and unfair.

Thing is, there is pretty much nothing you can do. except move out (got any other family you can live with?). or convince your mother to kick him out. It's not really your problem to fix. tbh i think your mother should be getting you both out of the situation. what does she say about it? if i was you i would try and get a job that started at like 7pm or something so you can be around him as little as possible. sorry i don't have anything more helpful to say.

Well my mom cant kick him out since its his house hes lived here for 43 years so thats out of the option. i hate working at night mostly because when your alone welding in an empty lot its kinda creepy. and i still dont deserve sympathy