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Dwl4
July 23rd, 2012, 01:34 PM
ok this is realy embarassing to ask but i want to know if im gay. :confused:
I only watch gay porn its wierd because i usually never watch straight porn. I am always fantasising about doing it with guys and i have experimented with guys. But i would never date a guy or go out with one. im not attracted to them but a lot of guys are hot to me. I also really love this girl but im afraid to ask her out and i woul marry her later in life i could. i also want to have kids later to and i wouldnt want to be with a guy. Am i gay? or bi. Its all so confuzing to me. Plz help me.
Gravity_boy
July 23rd, 2012, 01:54 PM
As I know many of guys feel like you. I think it's just your curiousity which is connected with puberty. You're just curious and you're not gay as you wrote. I often feel the same and I'm not gay...I'm just curious. I bet that this is just ''gay'' phase which you will go through it. Don't worry too much and Enjoy your life :)
LatinaVivit
July 23rd, 2012, 01:55 PM
You could be; keep in mind you're still a teenager. You've got plenty of time to figure yourself out. There's absolutely no rush!
Dwl4
July 23rd, 2012, 01:57 PM
thank you for your help
DerBear
July 23rd, 2012, 02:01 PM
Puberty for Boys :arrow: Teen Sexuality
I think you shall find more relevant answers here.
Jim Ekon
July 23rd, 2012, 02:12 PM
You can't know that you're gay. It's too early,when the time goes by,you'll understand if you prefer guys over girls or the opposite. But you're still a teenager,you have a plenty of time to figure out what you really are.
Foamy
July 23rd, 2012, 05:19 PM
It's just your hormones dude. Why not ask te girl out? If you know you like her then go 4 it.
Cam_master
July 23rd, 2012, 05:35 PM
You will know with time
Dwl4
July 23rd, 2012, 05:47 PM
It's just your hormones dude. Why not ask te girl out? If you know you like her then go 4 it.
im so scare dto though, we have a good relationship going and i dont wanna ruin it
Foamy
July 23rd, 2012, 06:30 PM
im so scare dto though, we have a good relationship going and i dont wanna ruin it
Then take it slow. just try to b sure that nothing gets out spontaneously.
ImCoolBeans
July 23rd, 2012, 06:56 PM
If you cannot date or be in a relationship with a guy then you definitely are not gay. Being gay isn't all about sex, bud. A gay male feels the same deep emotional feelings that a straight man feels for a woman, but for another male instead. I wrote this thread (click) (http://www.virtualteen.org/forums/showthread.php?t=125182) and it talks about about all different types of sexuality. It covers determining ones sexuality to definitions and facts about them. I think reading it over could be beneficial for you as it may clear up some uncertainties you're having.
imless
July 25th, 2012, 10:31 AM
You have small part of yourself being a gay. You mentioned that you only watch male porn videos so your question was answered already! And, maybe you're just attracted to guys. I think so!
crisel
July 25th, 2012, 10:38 AM
Based on what you've said, you have the sign of being a gay but you are still young. There's still a big chance of changes.
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