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rebeldrake5621
July 23rd, 2012, 11:45 AM
Well about 3 weeks ago, while at the beach, i gave my blind friend a blow job, and hand job, i wanted to do more, but knew it was wrong, does that make me gay?
andrethaiss
July 23rd, 2012, 12:34 PM
Well i dont think it does. Does it make you feel like attracted to him? Its normal, i wouldnt worry personally. Although did he ask you to do it?
Jim Ekon
July 23rd, 2012, 12:35 PM
That's weird. I don't know what to say but if you like him then it seems more to you.
chetbonare
July 23rd, 2012, 12:56 PM
Up to you if your gay or not.
Rayquaza
July 23rd, 2012, 12:57 PM
I'm not sure that him being blind has anything to do with the question.
Nothing 'makes' you gay, and this is probably something that you'll feel whilst going through puberty. If you really have strong feelings for him, then tell him, but at the same time, you need to contemplate if this will ruin your friendship, make seeing each other awkward or just try to keep yourself under control. Only you know your sexuality, not us. Also, I really hope that wasn't done in public sight.
Dwl4
July 23rd, 2012, 12:59 PM
no its mostly just hormones unless you like him
ImCoolBeans
July 23rd, 2012, 01:01 PM
Up to you if your gay or not.
Wrong. It is not a choice. I did not consciously choose to be gay.
It could mean that you're gay, or you could just be curious about sex and sexuality. A lot of boys experiment while going through puberty - it's actually very common. Being gay isn't all about sex. A gay man feels the deep emotional feelings that a straight man feels for a woman, only he feels it for another man.
Sean4U
July 23rd, 2012, 01:06 PM
AMEN MIKE.....being gay is NOT a choice, it is who you are....and to the poster, NO that doesn't' make you gay by any way ...just means you were very turned on ...wanted some contact and helped a friend out...yea being blind has NOTHING to do with what happened, just that he was.....the question that was asked about if he wanted it is the important thing tho....if you took advantage of him then it was wrong but if it was something you both wanted....nothing wrong with it at all
Lucas Nunes
July 23rd, 2012, 02:01 PM
The case is not you being gay, you have to know if you felt something for him.
I have Skype and MSN if you want to talk!
Lost in the Echo
July 23rd, 2012, 03:05 PM
You're not gay, just curious. Every teen wants to experiment with the same gender because of hormones during puberty, they want to know what sex with the same gender is like. I would only think you're gay if you are emotionally attracted to him.
Terrell613091
July 23rd, 2012, 05:58 PM
idk wat to tell you..
itsthat0n3kid
July 23rd, 2012, 06:01 PM
It's just curiosity. Doesn't mean your gay. Just curious.
Tonebone88
July 23rd, 2012, 09:11 PM
Wrong. It is not a choice. I did not consciously choose to be gay.
It could mean that you're gay, or you could just be curious about sex and sexuality. A lot of boys experiment while going through puberty - it's actually very common. Being gay isn't all about sex. A gay man feels the deep emotional feelings that a straight man feels for a woman, only he feels it for another man.
Sometimes I wish that more people understood this. Every time some person goes on about gay people choosing that life, I argue with them. Honestly, my best arguement is that I know first hand, but I'm not quite ready to come out to the whole world. My family knows, and that's enough for now.
jay_
July 24th, 2012, 01:43 PM
Just because you jacked off a blind person doesn't mean you're not gay. Any blind person Ive met could use their hands perfectly fine.
camilo96
July 24th, 2012, 10:18 PM
It wouldn't make it any better , or worse if he wasn't blind.
Jtyler
July 24th, 2012, 11:07 PM
If you liked him then yes in other words no
lambo420
July 25th, 2012, 12:59 AM
This is just creepy i mean the blind part just. freaky.
Mysterious Skin
July 25th, 2012, 04:09 AM
Haha, blind... that's a new one.
No it doesn't make you gay.
Lock
July 25th, 2012, 05:22 AM
Well about 3 weeks ago, while at the beach, i gave my blind friend a blow job, and hand job, i wanted to do more, but knew it was wrong, does that make me gay?
You better hope not cause believe when i say those people who claim to be gay dont know what they are missing,,,,,,,,,,if you know what i mean
daniel1009
July 25th, 2012, 05:30 AM
Id say it just means that your curious
Bradley 97
July 25th, 2012, 03:45 PM
I mean if you are attracted to him emotionally maybe your bi but don't worry about it
thomasgj
July 25th, 2012, 05:40 PM
You better hope not cause believe when i say those people who claim to be gay dont know what they are missing,,,,,,,,,,if you know what i mean
what do you mean people who "claim" to be gay? and i'm pretty sure gay people don't want whatever they're missing. if what you mean is "i'm an idiot", then i do get what you mean.
Christheman
July 25th, 2012, 08:07 PM
experimenting is fine : )
jonjon1998
July 26th, 2012, 06:12 AM
You're not gay, just curious. Every teen wants to experiment with the same gender because of hormones during puberty, they want to know what sex with the same gender is like. I would only think you're gay if you are emotionally attracted to him.
Trying to figure out how you know he's not gay, just curious? To me, giving another guy a bj is pretty gay! I'm not saying there's anything wrong with that, but it just is...
minecraftmstr
July 26th, 2012, 06:17 AM
your ok
besides he blind he must have had the time of his life
IceEssence
July 26th, 2012, 06:23 AM
Teach him how to jack off? Just suggesting...
fast8
July 26th, 2012, 06:57 AM
yea u will know if ur gay or not dont worry about it now
hannesp
July 26th, 2012, 10:19 AM
Maybe but if you both like it,so what?
WonderTastic
July 26th, 2012, 10:41 AM
You are who you are. Sexuality is a tricky subject for every one. I was kissing boys at 7 and I was caught one day kissing my cousin (practicing for a girl I liked).. they they told me that homosexuality is wrong and I go to hell. I did belive them and i meet up with one of boys i kissed at and he didmt even wanna talk to me anymore. We were the best of friends untill he met society and its rules. So I forced myself to throw away those feelings for guys and pursued girls but no one ever liked me. So I slowly started to accept the fact that I liked boys annd if I was like this at 7 then I was born this way so how could it be wrong. I found this out last year and I accpected my sexuality and came out. So what I'm trying to say is don't let one experience rule your liife. Go and talk to gay or bi guys asked how they know and most importantly ask your self cause only you know what you are. Need to talk pm me.
vernon
July 26th, 2012, 01:10 PM
Wrong. It is not a choice. I did not consciously choose to be gay.
It could mean that you're gay, or you could just be curious about sex and sexuality. A lot of boys experiment while going through puberty - it's actually very common. Being gay isn't all about sex. A gay man feels the deep emotional feelings that a straight man feels for a woman, only he feels it for another man.
well i belive that every person have the choice to choose thier sexuality.an if u did it for experiment then your not but if u did it becouse u are attracted to him that would make u gay.
cutebiguy
February 14th, 2013, 10:31 PM
Regardless of whether you are actually gay/bi, why do you think its wrong in the first place?
If you're attracted to him or guys, you might be gay. Or you might just be very horny.
Just dont blame it on the hormones and forget the whole thing. Seriously think about what you like (girls, guys or both)
Troy35216
February 14th, 2013, 10:36 PM
Teach him how to jack off? Just suggesting...
lol he's blind not stupid. i'm pretty sure he knows how to jerk off
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