Moving on.

[Wisconsin]

So about 3 to 4 months ago my girlfriend broke up with me cuz she thought I was cheating (I was not doing anything of the sort) to explain the situation. I was at a high school benefit to help my dying art teacher who had cancer. My best friend was there. Her parents neglect her so my mother decided to invite her to our home for some decent meals over the weekend. I immediately notified my gf. She said okay and had no problem (apparently) so later that nite I found out my teacher was going to come home to spend her dying days in her colorful (hello, art teacher) home. She was sick of hospital white. So I told my gf this and she starts in about my best friend being at my house tonight of all nites. Later that nite she broke up. So 3 weeks later I start dating my best friend and 2 weeks later it doesn't work out and to this day we are still best friends. But my ex will not speak to me. I have recently tried moving on by looking at other girls but nothing feels the same as when I was looking at HER! So I have no idea what to do, do I keep trying to move on or keep trying to talk to her. I have apologized up and down and said I was wrong and you were right. Even my best friend knew the entire time we were dating that I never wanted her, I wanted my ex. I NEEDED my ex. She made me utterly happy and I remember every single detail. I always treated her right, opening doors, taing her plate to the sink when she finished, treated her family like royalty, boosted her self esteem, cheered her on at swim meets, went to her swimming practices, everything. She was my princess and I am a lonely prince slowly dying of heartbreak.

[jord16an]

wow dude im sorry but im sure time will heal u but i mean if u feel so strongly about her keep persuing her just dont be like "creepy" about it give her her space but let her know how u still care and feel about her good luck dude

[Wisconsin]

How can I tell her how I feel when I'm pretty ure she is deleting my texts without reading them...?

[FreeFall]

You can't. You've got to leave her alone before you become "the crazy obsessed ex boyfriend".
There's nothing worse than an ex texting an "I'm sorry please forgive me" text while with your new boyfriend. New boyfriend may show up and force you to leave her alone. She'll resent you even more if that happens. For some reason or another, she didn't trust you.

Just leave her alone an give yourself time. If she wanted to talk to you, she would have. Do something you like, it'll go away.

[Wisconsin]

Well I really don't have anything to worry about with her new bf. He is also her ex from before me and he moved to a different state and even then he wouldn't touch me. Too much of a pansy. But I haven't been constantly texting her. I think I've text her 3 times in the 4 months we've been apart. I have seen her on facebook a couple of times but I don't talk to her for fear of it being her sister and not her. I have been trying to figure out who I am again cuz being with her I changed so much for good. I used to never do my homework, I was failing my classes but dating her I was getting good grades and passing with flying colors so good my teachers starting thinking I was cheating so we had her mom tell the teachers we were just studying a lot

[anyone50]

From a girls point of view i would say that either she isn't being straight with you about the reasons she broke up and just using it as an excuse or she is very insecure and is strickly her problem either way. You can't make someone like or talk to you no matter how bad you want it. It sounds like she has made her choice. and you should take away from the relationship that was good and build on that. The next girl you date will appreciate you more because of it.

[Ambrosia]

Thankfully your young and it isn't the end of the world. But frankly, you have to think about it. If she mattered so much, why would you have started dating you best friend so quickly after the break up? It sounds like you just don't want to be lonely and your ex seems like a logical answer to this.

[Wisconsin]

Well I can see that going from your advice (all of you) that its time to move on or at least give her more time and leave her alone. I had kinda figured that would be the outcome of this post so Ill keep trying to move on =/ thx guys/girls...and no I didn't date my best friend cuz I was lonely. I thought I had feelings for her but I was just looking for comfort. She had recently just come out of a bad relationship herself so we both wanted comfort and went to someone close.

[Dwl4]

i cant let go of the girl i love. ive liked her for almost my whole life. But ive never had the courage to ask her out. i really love her and want to tell her how i feel. could anybody give me any advice on how to tell her?