mom finally had enough

[VictoriaGotaSecret]

about 45 mintues ago my mom was being pushed and screamed at by my dad. she finaly had enough so she screamed as loud as she could to tell me to call 911. i grabbed the phone from next to me and ran out the door with it. i was so afraid of what my dad would do to me. he tried to bullshit his way out of it with me and the police. he called her a bitch and told her to get the fuck out, then started an arguement over her turning the lights back off. im so nervious and afraid of what he will do to us.

[LikeAJay]

i felt the same way with my mom bf but she broke up with him and he threatened to kill us.Just if he trys anything call police

[CesarU1]

Just know that no matter how bad it seems, things will get better. Once u hit rock bottom, u can only get to a higher place

[VictoriaGotaSecret]

HE GOT AWAY WITH IT. HES GOTTEN AWAY WITH SO MANY THINGS HES DONE TO MY FAMILY, TOO MANY THINGS. the one time i decide to do the right thing and call he got away with it.

[Dwl4]

when he goes to sleep, get you and your mom out of there and go to a friends house r something

[VictoriaGotaSecret]

i dont know where they are and im really worried about what my dad might be doing to her

[Jim Ekon]

Get away from there! Go to a safe place,a friend's house,grandparents or somewhere else!

[imless]

If anything goes wrong like the case you have, your mom and with your dad. It needs simple discussion of what's going wrong then if things can't be settled anymore, space is needed! I'm having the same case with you and it's so hard really, sometimes I want to stand as a parent for both of them and scold to both of them. They act sometimes like a kid and I don't really want it.

[VictoriaGotaSecret]

my dad doesnt know how to speak in a nice calm tone of voice he lectures then turns it into an argument them starts to hit us so discussing it with him isnt reall an option

[PinkFloyd]

Well iv'e always been paranoid about home invasions. That's why I sleep with a 12 guage shotgun and a beretta 92 handgun (both loaded) on my nightstand.

But before doing anything stupid, call police.

[WearAngels]

My Goodness ! After reading your post, i felt horrible in your case and i wonder how are you now ?

[William_Evans]

Find a safe house, or find a place where you dad can't find u

[AnnaAbbey]

Everything's gonna be alright

[sparta]

The hardest thing to do in this situation is going to be the thing that is most important. You and your mother have to leave. Don't worry about getting all of your things packed. Don't worry about a suitcase. You and your mother need to leave the first available chance and find a womans shelter. These shelters will help women with many different things including legal matters, shelter, clothing, and food.

It's understandable to be scared of what your dad may be doing, as he's had experience doing it before. The best thing you can do now, is get away.

[Perfectly Flawed]

You have to avoid contact with your dad and leave asap. If he makes threats like that you need to be in a safe place, and you can take further action from there.

[VictoriaGotaSecret]

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[VictoriaGotaSecret]

The hardest thing to do in this situation is going to be the thing that is most important. You and your mother have to leave. Don't worry about getting all of your things packed. Don't worry about a suitcase. You and your mother need to leave the first available chance and find a womans shelter. These shelters will help women with many different things including legal matters, shelter, clothing, and food.

It's understandable to be scared of what your dad may be doing, as he's had experience doing it before. The best thing you can do now, is get away.

You have to avoid contact with your dad and leave asap. If he makes threats like that you need to be in a safe place, and you can take further action from there.

i wish i could but everytime he does something and the police become involved my mom denies it because of things he has threatened in the past.

[Fiction]

If you can get evidence, and give it to the police, it might be a good idea. Do you have a video camera, or sounbd recording equipment at all?

That way the police have evidence, and you can tell the police of his threats. Then you'll end up under police protection until he's locked up.

[Wayne92]

I was in the same position as you not that long ago. What i finally did is record what was going on. The audio alone serves as proof. So even if your mom gets scared and wants to deny what happens, you can pull the officer aside and tell him what's really going on and even show him as evidence. After I started to stand up for us, my mother started to do so too. Sometimes you have to take matter into your own hands. I hope this helps.

[Stephan]

Yep, I can completely relate.

I got my dad arrested last Saturday for abusing me, etc..I've had enough of it. He always hits me and I never EVER fight back, but not this time. I punched him in the left arm, even though the shot wasn't that good, it made me feel better for defending myself.

Since then I've been staying at a safe house (my cousin's place) They all left for South Africa today, so I have their place all to myself ;] and the next week or 2 lmao.

[Clawhammer]

If you can get evidence, and give it to the police, it might be a good idea. Do you have a video camera, or sounbd recording equipment at all?

That way the police have evidence, and you can tell the police of his threats. Then you'll end up under police protection until he's locked up.

This might sound far-fetched, but honestly, it's the best idea right now. Get yourself a cheap pocket recorder, keep it on you. Get some solid evidence against him when he starts up again, and you'll be in the clear.

Be safe, stay strong. You can beat it.

[Wayne92]

It's actually not as far-fetched as you think, pat. I did the same with my mom's old bf and the bastard is on probation. I still have all my recordings, just in case.

[Manjusri]

He should kills himselfs.

Losing faith in humanity.

To the op: listen dude, as hard as it may sound you need to get out of that situation. It's not healthy. Talk to your mom, tell her its best for both of you. Don't worry about what your dad might do, if he doesn't know where you are, how's he going to hurt you?
Pack up your shit and go.

[Silicate Wielder]

I've been in the same situation ,there are women's shelter and YOU NEED TO GET OUT NOW. the longer you wait the less likely you'll get anywhere as things may escalate to even worse.once your in a shlter you may as well get used to it because some people end p staying a Loooong time in them. i've spent over a year living in shleters and I finally moved ot and into a trailerpark abou 2 weeks ago.

now my dad is a physcotic man who has notihng to lose and now I'm still being hunted down by him. but I'm lucky because he has no idea where I am at the moment, conidering he has his brother who is a detective helping him find us. my situation may be bad but its a hell of a lot better than tolerating his abuse.