My ex.

[glitterprincess49]

I'm not sure if this belongs in here but this has been bothering me for a while. A year ago I was dating this guy and I thought everything was fine until he broke up with me. My friends made me realize he was only using me and just wanted a physical relationship, not an emotional one. Whenever he wanted something he'd beg and I'd say no so he would become all depressed and try to make me feel bad about myself so I gave in. Now I regret it. I can't get it off my mind. What should I do?

[PinkFloyd]

Well first of all, you shouldnt feel that this, in any way was your fault. It wasn't. Like your friends were saying, this guy only wanted you for possibly your looks. You should forget about this guy. Me being one in a steady relationship knows that I cant just beg for something if shes not ready. (Most guys should know that.) I hope I helped :)

[durantfan]

My advice is to assess the situation and really think about what you want in a relationship. Even though you really want to date him, are you okay with him using you just for your looks? If so, do what you want, but I say forget about this guy.

[Christheman]

This guy is an asshole. You are not. You gave in. You are human and evryone makes mistakes. Its ok. Just forget about it : )

[December]

I know what you are feeling. I had a similar experience, and it definitely is something that I regret and that I let happen more than I should have. Sometimes it can be hard to say no, especially if you care about the guy, but mostly it just left me feeling kind of slimy and like I should have stood up for what I wanted. My advice to you is to not make the same mistakes I made continually over a long period of time. If all he wants is to use you, then it is time to say goodbye. Don't let him manipulate you, you know what he is after so if that is not something that you want, just tell him that you won't be seeing him anymore. As for getting it off your mind, time alone will take that away. Coming from someone who experienced this, when you start thinking about it, just try to remember that it is not your fault, that it won't happen again, and that even though it did happen, it is not the end of the world and it doesn't have to define your life. Not all guys are this way, and you should forget the ones who are and try and move forward as best as you can. :)

[West Coast Sheriff]

Ur better than him and he's not worth ur time

[anyone50]

Put the experience in it's proper place and go on with life. We have all made mistakes and thats what dating is all about it's how we learn from our mistakes. just don't repeat them with your next bf

[glitterprincess49]

Thanks!

[Lovely637]

You just have to keep yourself busy to get him off your mind.