Need help!

[Garrett Benson]

Can somebody please give me some help with a girl...I feel so desperate!

[ImCoolBeans]

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Mental Crisis :arrow: Relationships and Dating.

[loz4]

What do you need help with?

[JayTea]

Could we please have some more details?

[Garrett Benson]

Well my best friend, Skylar, who I have known since I was 5, came to the beach with us and her family. So were friends but I have a crush on her,( she knows I do.). But everytime I try to do something with her like sit beside her on the couch or sit beside her @ the dinner table she gets up, acts like she has to do something (she actually did check her blood sugar a couple of times b/c she is diabetic.) Then comes back and if that's the only seat open she'll go sit in the floor. Then on Thursday, all the girls last night @ holden beach, we stay up till 12:30 and we get up and head for bed and I say "sky, u going to bed, commere an gimmie a hug." kuz we were watching something sad so I then walked towards her with arms wide open and tried to hug her and she just says uuhhhhhhh! I then handed her her pink insulin pump and said good night. Then i went to my bed and tried to sleep but I couldn't b/c of the whole hug incedent. So I started thinking then crying. Finally I got out of bed and went to the front porch, eyes still teary and watched the sun rise. She wont hardly say 2 words to me now. I'm falling apart, what do I do?

[JayTea]

From what I see, she does not view you in the same way you view her. I would recommend that you move on. She might someday have feeling for you, but currently, I do not see any. I know that you will find someone, you can do it :yes:

[Garrett Benson]

Thanks man...I guess ill try to move on, its just she is the only girl to be nice to me and ive done so much for her. I swore to myself not to give up, but I think I already have.

[December]

You don't necessarily have to "give up" quite yet, but give her some time. I can't say I haven't done things similar to what she is doing to you if I feel like someone is putting pressure on me to like them and I don't feel the same. Give her some time, and most importantly, give her some space. After awhile if you still don't feel any reciprocation of your feelings from her, than I'd say that it is time to move on. But first and foremost, if it does seem that she doesn't like you, it is not the end of the world. You will come across other girls that are nice and who will like you for you and you won't have to stress over whether or not they like you too, because when it is right you will know. Good luck :)

[Garrett Benson]

She has known that ive liked her since 7th grade, she was the only person there 4 me then, but no matter what, she will always be my baby.

[JayTea]

I would be lying to you if I said that it would be easy. Maybe someday too she will see you in a different light.

[AyooEriicK-]

I recommend youu back off for a while. It seems she might think youur desperate for her . Give her some space, youu might be her awkward friend and that is whyy she is so nice to you. She might feel bad for you. Just take it chill with her for a while

[West Coast Sheriff]

Flirt with her friends. act like u like one of them and pretend 2 hit on one of em. She will either hate u 4 ever and never talk 2 u agen or she will feel jealous. Jealousy is a powerful form of manipulation. Most likely find a nu girl and tell sky u 2 just wanna b friends. Move on
Hope this helps :cool:

[Garrett Benson]

The hell?! I don't want her to hate me! I swore I would give my life for her, and I will always keep that promise...forever...

[crisel]

She's so lucky that there's a man like you feeling that way for her. Based on what she acts, you better accept it. If the person you love doesn't love you back the way you do, let go, there is someone better intended for you.

[anyone50]

She's so lucky that there's a man like you feeling that way for her. Based on what she acts, you better accept it. If the person you love doesn't love you back the way you do, let go, there is someone better intended for you.

ok i'm confused "there's a man like you" Isn't she a girl or at least thats what it says in her profile. at any rate i know where your coming from because i had a super cruch on this girl i've know since 5th grade and everytime i tried to step up our friendship she acted like your friend. There are some girls that are very phobic to that kind of relationship and will distance themselves from anyone coming to close. you can either take the level of friendship she's willing to return or move past it because they very seldom change no matter how much you want them to. Sorry about the hash reality of it all I know it hurts

[Garrett Benson]

Thanks, I just cant let her go so easily tho. I got into a fight with her new boyfriend and got my ass handed to me. I guess I should stop trying, we have been through so much together I just want her to be happy.

[Jesse17]

U have fallen for the girl?

[Garrett Benson]

Yes. She means the world to me!