cpr97
July 22nd, 2012, 01:35 PM
i just figured i would post this thread so everyone can kind of understand something here, we are all (or most of us) going through puberty where our minds and bodies are figuring out who we are as people and they are changing rapidly.
Just because you look at naked guys and get an erection or have thought about other boys and got hard or horny or have actually did some expirimenting with other boys and enjoyed it does not mean you are gay it is very simply explained by HORMONES our minds do crazy things cuz of hormones. Being gay is not just a sexual attraction to someone of the same sex it is mostly an emotional attraction as well as a sexual attraction. the point i am trying to make here is dont get down on yourself or worry that you might be gay because something popped in your mind or you saw something in porn or wanted to or did try something in real life and enjoyed it or it made your dick hard or made you horny.
As far as being Bi well that to me is even more confusing cuz there is a fine line in my mind about being bi. here is how i always explain to people to figure it out ask yourself these questions:
Would you sexually play around with someone of the same sex (if you knew there would be no consequences like other people finding out), would you ever publicly date someone of the same sex or hold their hand or kiss them in public?
at our young ages we are all horny and enjoy the feeling of sexual pleasure and i dont think our minds really care at this point how we reach our orgasms obvously with another person is alot more thrilling and funner.
You cant base your sexuallity on what or how your BODY reacts certain things being gay or bi or straight is more of a mental thing then a physical if your a boy and your straight and another boy touches your dick there is a very good chance it will get hard this is from physical stimulation not mental stimulation pretty much your brain and your penis doesnt know if its a boy or girl touching you it just knows its being stimulated and it likes it so it flips a switch in your body saying ok im horny time to fill the penis with blood to enjoy this moment i mean if our sexuality was based on solely what makes our dicks hard we would be in love with pillows lol i know if im sleeping and my dick rubs on a pillow the right way i get hard doesnt mean i would ever date a pillow
basically what im trying to say is unless you have an emotional connection with someone of the same sex your not gay or bi (if you couldnt picture yourself dating a boy your not gay or bi) as far as messing around playing together experimenting whatever you wanna call it we are young and horny and just want to get off so if we get help from a friend or help a friend whos the same sex but its nothing more then that and it doesnt leave the bedroom then your just a normal horny teenage boy or curious or bedroom bi whatever you wanna call it but NOT gay.
**i am not saying there is anything at all wrong with being gay or bi just it seems alot of people have that worry and shouldnt have to worry about it**
And if you are gay or bi be happy with it, it wasnt anything that you did that made you that way its just the way your mind is nothing can change it and you should be happy with yourself and any real friends will accept you for who you are
If anyone would like to add or discuss this more then feel free or PM or whatever you feel comfortable doing if you want to talk or ask anything
Just because you look at naked guys and get an erection or have thought about other boys and got hard or horny or have actually did some expirimenting with other boys and enjoyed it does not mean you are gay it is very simply explained by HORMONES our minds do crazy things cuz of hormones. Being gay is not just a sexual attraction to someone of the same sex it is mostly an emotional attraction as well as a sexual attraction. the point i am trying to make here is dont get down on yourself or worry that you might be gay because something popped in your mind or you saw something in porn or wanted to or did try something in real life and enjoyed it or it made your dick hard or made you horny.
As far as being Bi well that to me is even more confusing cuz there is a fine line in my mind about being bi. here is how i always explain to people to figure it out ask yourself these questions:
Would you sexually play around with someone of the same sex (if you knew there would be no consequences like other people finding out), would you ever publicly date someone of the same sex or hold their hand or kiss them in public?
at our young ages we are all horny and enjoy the feeling of sexual pleasure and i dont think our minds really care at this point how we reach our orgasms obvously with another person is alot more thrilling and funner.
You cant base your sexuallity on what or how your BODY reacts certain things being gay or bi or straight is more of a mental thing then a physical if your a boy and your straight and another boy touches your dick there is a very good chance it will get hard this is from physical stimulation not mental stimulation pretty much your brain and your penis doesnt know if its a boy or girl touching you it just knows its being stimulated and it likes it so it flips a switch in your body saying ok im horny time to fill the penis with blood to enjoy this moment i mean if our sexuality was based on solely what makes our dicks hard we would be in love with pillows lol i know if im sleeping and my dick rubs on a pillow the right way i get hard doesnt mean i would ever date a pillow
basically what im trying to say is unless you have an emotional connection with someone of the same sex your not gay or bi (if you couldnt picture yourself dating a boy your not gay or bi) as far as messing around playing together experimenting whatever you wanna call it we are young and horny and just want to get off so if we get help from a friend or help a friend whos the same sex but its nothing more then that and it doesnt leave the bedroom then your just a normal horny teenage boy or curious or bedroom bi whatever you wanna call it but NOT gay.
**i am not saying there is anything at all wrong with being gay or bi just it seems alot of people have that worry and shouldnt have to worry about it**
And if you are gay or bi be happy with it, it wasnt anything that you did that made you that way its just the way your mind is nothing can change it and you should be happy with yourself and any real friends will accept you for who you are
If anyone would like to add or discuss this more then feel free or PM or whatever you feel comfortable doing if you want to talk or ask anything