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LucyLovestrukk
July 22nd, 2012, 09:59 AM
So i'm a 15 year old girl (who is obsessed with boys and relationships, but not in a creepy way haha) and I would really like to get a boyfriend because i would like to be able to have a close relationship with someone.

I'm 5"1, brown hair, blue eyes, pale skin and i am very fashion concious and I always like to look my best, So i think i make a good first impression. I am an outgoing and confident person and i love talking to people! I have quite a few male friends but none of them are really what I'm looking for, i go out often: either by myself or with friends. I go to an all girls school, so thats out and any of the clubs I am part of either dont have any boys or the boys are really pervy and all they want is sex. How do I meet boys and get a boyfriend, once I meet them I could easily make it work but its that first hurdle that I cant seem to get over!

I always see guys who look really nice, but it seems like in our society talking to strangers is creepy and not acceptable, so i generally avoid it, but should this be my tactic?

Please help me out! I think about this all the time, and i cant figure it out!
All help is appreciated!
Thanks in advanced

Wayne92
July 22nd, 2012, 10:37 AM
To start, good for you for having good standards on what type of guy you want. The problem is, a lot of guys in your age range act that way, probably because of hormones and because of their age but there are ones that are worth while. If a girl I don't know just walks up to me and just starts talking to me, it would throw me off guard, but depending on what she says will dictate what happens. If you are in the line of sight of the guy you want to talk to, just wait for him to notice and use your body language to show that you are interested in talking to him but not that you are desperate. I contact, smiling, giggling and stuff like that. If he seems to be second guessing himself, which is common, position yourself closer to "bait him" or you make the first move. This may sound cliche' but I have seen it work quite a few times. Hope this helps, good luck and happy hunting.

RCT109
July 22nd, 2012, 10:52 AM
I agree with Wayne but what you could also do it the 'accidental' bumping into someone I know guys do it alot to girls that they like just to start talking to them

Wayne92
July 22nd, 2012, 11:04 AM
I never seen a girl pull that one before but it's worth a try. What you could do is if you are in a store and the guy is in a aisle looking at something, walk up to him and try looking at the stuff he is standing in front of and take it from there. A cute girl did that to me once except she just said, hi and excuse me. I would have said something but my mom was near by and I knew she would have did something dumb and embarrassing.

Cicero
July 22nd, 2012, 10:51 PM
Try 'accidentally' bumping into them or something if you feel shy about it. But just going up to them and saying hey or asking them a question would do the trick. Soo say your at the store and you need help lifting something, try asking a good looking guy to help you. Or if your at the gas station, try going up to the guy and ask if he can help put the hose thing in, say it isn't going in (this will work, cause then he will know your trying to flirt with him which my lead to a number exchange).

All of these will work, especially if you have the looks, judging from your Avatar you are cute enough (not meaning to be creepy or whatever lol). If your trying to get a good looking guy, and your good looking yourself, it would workout much smoothly. But if someone didn't have looks on their side, they would probably feel embarrassed and try to get out of the situation really fast. Or you could try a dating site if your old enough lol

I know if a cute girl hit on me, I would probably give her my number or it would lead to a convo, but I'd a not so cute girl tried to hit on me, I would be a little saddened (cause then I'd think I'm really ugly and I can only get not so cute girls).

TDB95
July 22nd, 2012, 11:51 PM
If your going to start talking to.some one you dont know go up to them and give them a compliment like i like your shirt where did you get it or something like that which can get the ball rolling for a convo and most likely he'll ask for your number so he can keep talking to you from their its just a matter of flirting and dropping subtle hints that you like him