i need help pronto

[Ginganinja]

ok so here it goes ive been going out with my gf for like 8months now and we havnt done anything except ive sucked on her boobs. and so my friend was texting me earlyer today and was saying that we should hang out. i asked what we wre gonna do and she said that we would be all alone we could do oral and hj and fingering and stuff. she is compleatly serious. what do i do. and why am i even thinking about going over cus i love my gf very much and i dont want to do anything to ruin our relationship. is it my hormons or somthing. help please?????? and what would you do in my situation

[Mortal Coil]

Well, first of all, yes, a lot of that is hormones. However, it's obvious that you really care about your girlfriend, otherwise you wouldn't be asking for advice. Here's mine:
Like I said, you care about your girlfriend. If she finds out, this could ruin your relationship with her. It's perfectly normal to want sex at your age, but it isn't acceptable to actually have sex (or, more accurately, perform sexual acts) with another person while in this relationship. I'd say, don't do it.

[Sean4U]

If you like the girls your'e going out with DON'T DO IT.....yea might be tempting, but i'm sure you can deal with things the way they are until the girl you like is ready and you are

[RachelW]

Sound like u know the answer to u question if u love ur gf then don't go, that's an easy answer

[jessiecox1]

Don't do it...you're already dating someone, and you will ruin the relationship when she finds out you were messing around with someone else. Your reputation is one of the most important things that you have...don't risk ruining it over something like this.

[Mollypop]

Nothing for me to add. You don't go unless you had already talked to your girlfriend before and she said she didn't mind. You didn't do that so you don't go.

[cpr97]

this is a no brainer, if you love your gf dont do it

[Wayne92]

Tell the girl you are in a relationship that you are happy with. She should respect that.

[inexracercjd]

ya do u rly need us 2 tell u itd be wrong 2 do that
i mean if u wanna get dumped go 4 it

[Human]

drop the biscuit...

[Ginganinja]

i decided to go andjust hang out with her. she went and tried to do stuff but i couldnt do it i told her i cant and explained why ad she said she understood we just watched tv it was fun i guess. thanks everyone

[toadmaster]

Nice job

[Lock]

dude dont do it.the may pressuse you or even want to break up with you but since you care about her dont ,cause if you go there you guys may end up having sex

[Dwl4]

you made a good decision

[Anyone51]

Pffft it would just have been field research!
Kidding, well done.

You do need to communicate with your gf though if you want more find out if she is okay with that - she may be ready and wanting just shy who knows

[Ginganinja]

thanks ill have to bring that up sometime today. maybe she is shy but im pretty sure she isnt ready yet. but ill try and see how it goes thanks everyone