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thatasiankid
July 22nd, 2012, 02:03 AM
I am 15 years old and bi (maybe a bit more gay..). I've found out about this maybe since I was 11. Now every time I see a guy I check out his ass. Anyway moving on to the point..

I hang out with my friend ever since we were young. We would have sleepovers and watch movies/ play video games. When I was 14, I started noticing his ass. It was really round. One time, I was over at his house and he was sleeping, He was turned sideways and I saw his ass sticking out. I went beside him and started touching it. It felt really good, and I started jacking off. After that first experience I started doing it more often.

He seemed clueless after at first but lately, every time I try to touch him he nearly wakes up. I have a feeling he knows.. And a few days ago, I was sleeping over at his house and he was already asleep. I went beside him and touched him, he flinched and woke up. I panicked and pretended I needed something by asking if he had seen my iPod. He said no and went back to sleep. I really think I got caught and now I feel crappy.

I feel like I'm the only one who touches someone while asleep. What is wrong with me?

Yeah I know I'll get hate comments, I really deserve it..

Harley Quinn
July 22nd, 2012, 11:17 AM
I don't think there's anything wrong with you, to a certain degree anyways. However, I don't advise that you touch someone in their sleep, because one day someone will think you're trying to do something else than touch. You really don't want that happening if you're completely innocent of things like that. You need to try and find a new way of satisfying your needs without touching someone else, fantasize if that will help you. Of course, you could just tell your friend and see what he says but I doubt you want to do that - though it does seem like he knows what you're doing and probably doesn't want to say anything.

Gandalf
July 22nd, 2012, 11:19 AM
If you understand that your actions were inappropriate then you haven't got a problem in my opinion.

Admiring a persons body is perfectly normal part of sexual attraction, just make sure if you act on these desires in future it should only be if it is consensual and the other person is comfortable with it, also stay 'safe' out there.

Kryptonite: You got there first, two minutes quicker, it took me ten minutes to post this, talk about slow.

Chorton
July 22nd, 2012, 08:31 PM
You are completely normal. I have also done the same thing but I stopped when my friend woke up with my hand in his pants. He didn't know I was gay but he found out that night. He didn't get mad at me or anything he said he actually wished I didn't stop when he woke up. Anyway back to the point it is normal to want to touch someone in there sleep, but you may not be as lucky as me if you get caught so just to be safe don't do it unless the other person knows and is ok with it.

LatinaVivit
July 22nd, 2012, 08:35 PM
Straight up, yes, that's pretty peculiar. People can say 'It's hormones' or 'You're just curious', but I think we need to draw a line. We're sentient human beings who can control what we do; I may be gay and find lots of guys attractive, but I don't pull them into a back alley and rape them.

You really should stop; unless, of course, he consents to it. If that's the case, copulate with him for all I care. Just don't do something that could ruin your friendship. Good luck.

Razeritus
July 23rd, 2012, 12:23 AM
What "LatinaVivit" man. If he does catch you, though I doubt he'd do this, he could get you in huge trouble for sexual assault being that you are touching his body without his consent. Admire from a distance man, for your own good.

PinkFloyd
July 23rd, 2012, 12:40 AM
When I was 13, I found one of my friends (it just so happened this friend was a girl. anyway I'm a very deep sleeper. long story short, she was checking out my package (I was wearing loos jeans...) But I didn't care, I was actually kinda flattered about it. My point is, he probobly doesnt care as much as you think.

Dwl4
July 23rd, 2012, 01:33 AM
just be careful what u do, if he noticed and let u continue then he likes it, u should probably just ask him if he noticed or if he likes it

imless
July 25th, 2012, 09:44 AM
What's wrong with you? It's when you touch his ass while he's asleep. It can be abuse at some point, I know that you know that. If you really like that guy then tell him what you then see what will be his reaction.

crisel
July 25th, 2012, 09:50 AM
You should control your urge of touching his ass or forget that urge. He might be away from you one day because he doesn't like what you did.