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TylerMN
July 22nd, 2012, 12:23 AM
The past summer has been pretty depressive for me. I don't know whether it is because I have finally accepted to myself that I am gay or because I have been moving and haven't seen any of my friends, or it could be both. Ever since I accepted to myself that I am gay, I have felt alone like no one understands me. I am not out of the closet either which could play a role into this but I am worried about coming out. Does anyone else feel this way? I am feeling pretty down lately.. :(
Maybe I should put it in the depression forum. :/
But does anyone else feel this way?

Darknova8
July 22nd, 2012, 12:24 AM
Don't feel bad a lot of people feel like this when they don't have people to talk to, u can always msg me im bi and always free to talk.
Go to the link in the bottom and like.

Fruit_Tart.
July 22nd, 2012, 12:34 AM
It takes some time for some people to get used to being gay. Some people just click right into it, but others struggle. Talk to people on vteen. I'm sure there are plenty of people here that are willing to talk, I'll be available.
Don't try to hinder yourself from feeling what you want to feel. If you see a cute boy, just daydream. ;) It's quite fun after you start looking at more and more.
The move might be it, but you can find new friends that are just like you and you might even connect better with them. :)
I hope you feel better as the days go on, but if you don't just talk to people and let yourself loose about all your feelings.

Abyssal Echo
July 22nd, 2012, 12:50 AM
I'm Gay and been out since Sept. last year. I do understand you not having people to talk to that you can relate to as well as coming to grips with your sexuality. if you wanna talk VM, PM, or IM me

Thunduhbuhlt
July 22nd, 2012, 01:32 AM
Welcome to the world of teenage life.

TylerMN
July 22nd, 2012, 01:35 AM
Welcome to the world of teenage life.

So normal? Lol.

Sean4U
July 22nd, 2012, 10:42 AM
Seems like a combination of things, since you said you are also moving right now and your friends are all where you used to live...that in itself is usually hard to deal with.....I'm gay, came out a year and ahalf ago, but I was lucky to have family suppot and friends too....but for most I know it is a very difficult time....stick in there bro because as you start to make new friends where you are hopefully it will bcome better...and maybe you'll find some bi/gay friends as well....

eggy101
July 23rd, 2012, 04:50 AM
Its all good i reckon if you come out youll feel better( sorry this is shit advice but im trying and am tired)

Lovemeorleaveme
July 23rd, 2012, 03:30 PM
Ya its normal, all teens feel alone for one reason or another sometime in their life. One of the nice things about site is that you can talk to people who are like you.

Foamy
July 23rd, 2012, 05:17 PM
It's alright. It'll be over soon enough.

crisel
July 25th, 2012, 12:04 PM
It's okay. At least you knew and it's confirmed to yourself that you're a gay. Don't be afraid to show it to them. I remembered what my gay friend said," You don't need to be accepted by others,you need to accept yourself."

guycuberguy
July 26th, 2012, 01:41 AM
I think its normal i came out yesterday as a gay and i felt good
But today i feel horrible
I hope for both of us it will end

Dinozzo
July 26th, 2012, 03:28 AM
I felt this one day, I think this is a phase of adolescence to not feel understood. I also accepted to myself that I am gay during this year, I felt different from the world but my friends were there and I understand that's not a shame to be Gay, Bi, Lesbian.. Your loneliness is accentuated by the fact you haven't see any of your friends. Try to contact them, sometimes a phone call makes you feel a little better if you can't see them.
I wish you courage and strenght through this hard time, you're not alone, here you have a community to help you.