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Jtyler
July 21st, 2012, 11:45 PM
The last time I saw one of my friends we were just playing around then we were watching a tv show. He touched my penis ( we both had clothes on) and then asked me if he wanted to have sex? I just looked at him and then he turned away. Later on we were ready to go to bed since we were having a sleep over. So he sleeps in his boxers and a shirt and I sleep in a shirt and sleeping shorts. So he came over to me while we were inour beds and told me to touche his dick and then he touched mine. Soon when i was slowly doezing off he took my hand and put it on his boxers, and started to ,I've my hand back and forth over his dick. I then realized what he was doing and told him to go to sleep. I wonder if he thinks I like it or something or maby he is curious and wants to experiment? I really don't know, what should I say to him, He is coming over to my house in 2 days for a sleepover in my room,not in the same bed. What should I say if he tries to do that again?
Jay_Team_Swagg
July 21st, 2012, 11:59 PM
Did you get offended ? If so, let him know. If he's a friend worth keeping, he'll understand. If you enjoyed it, let him know as well. He'll probabpy try again anyways.
camilo96
July 22nd, 2012, 12:01 AM
Well you already have a post similar to this ...but what ever.
Let's tackle a question at a time. You ask if we think he's curious. Well, if he is asking you if you want to have sex, and if he is touching you, then yes, I do believe he is curious .
You don't have to to anything you don't want to. Remember , you are in controll, and you have the final say.
Now with the touching. In my opinion I believe it's very innapropriet for him to continue touching you, and grabbing your hand and forcing you to touch him. If you don't feel comfortable with the way things are going tell him so.
In an other hand. If you are slightly curious yourself, and are willing to try some stuff with him, then just tell him that he is going to fast and to slow it down a bit.
You say he is coming over soon. Alright, well the chances of him trying more stuff on you are very likely. The only real way to avoid it, is to tell him not to come. If you think that that is a little much, then just talk to him. Sit him down while you drink a coke, what ever. Tell him that you are/are not ok with what he has in mind.
All in all it comes down to this. YOU and only YOU have controll of the situation. You have the final say.
Good luck buddy! Hope everything goes for the best. Mssge me if you need anything
Christheman
July 22nd, 2012, 12:06 AM
If you are uncomfortable just tell him. Simple as that. From what i read its sounds like you never told him
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