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Ashleysmurfs
July 21st, 2012, 03:29 PM
I never told anyone I know in person. But
I think I'm bi or more lezbean. I think my
Friend is Bi too. But neither of us says. We have only
Messed around as far as kissing and touching a little
Bit. But I'm not sure if it's cause she likes me that way
Or it's just something she's curious about. She is
Is so cute and everytime I see her naked I get
So turned on and hard for me to have fun cause
I just think about us playing further than we have.
What should I do? Anyone else have or had this problem?

Taryn98
July 21st, 2012, 03:58 PM
If you two are already kissing and touching a little then you both sound like you're bi or at least curious. There's nothing wrong with that.
If you want to go further with it, wait til the next time you two are kissing and try to take it to the next step, either with more touching or kissing and licking other body parts. If she enjoys it and doesn't stop, you know where you both stand. If she stops you, then maybe she's not comfortable with it.

Ashleysmurfs
July 21st, 2012, 04:47 PM
Ok. We have only touched as far as bra.
But not boob or panties it her vagina.
But I think she would but I think I was waiting
For her or she was waiting for me to make
The next move. I'm glad that it's ok. And
More girls do it tho.

brianabriana61
July 21st, 2012, 05:06 PM
yea sounds to me both of u may be a little bit bi, just take it slow and see where things go tho, just dont let it mess up ur friendship. I been there b4

Abnormal
July 21st, 2012, 05:06 PM
I wouldn't be too concerned with labeling yourself. If you feel that you like your best friend then seeing as how there is obviously some curiosity in both of you that you could probably try to go a little further with her and see how it all works out. I've had sex with my best friend before and she and I are the greatest friends ever.

PandaLeah
July 21st, 2012, 05:44 PM
There is nothing wrong with you being curious or even bi, do what your heart desires.

Anyone51
July 21st, 2012, 07:06 PM
Yeah no need to rush
I've come to say I'm bi now but never had a real gf- I just know I really like the fun I've had with female friends and guys too... But maybe it's silly to label myself like that already

Ashleysmurfs
July 22nd, 2012, 02:49 AM
Your so freaking cute. You have amazing eyes
I wish Iived close to you..,

Shortie
July 22nd, 2012, 05:28 AM
Yeah I've been in love with my best friend, she is soooo beautiful. As the other girls have said, why bother labelling yourself? Just do whatever you seem comfortable with and if you like it great, if not, doesn't mean you are or aren't "bi or lesbian".

FullyAlive
July 22nd, 2012, 06:33 AM
:arrow2: teen sexuality
You may see better responses here

RCT109
August 8th, 2012, 08:31 AM
I know this is a while since you asked but
from a guys pov

go at a spead thats right and as everyone said dont worry about labels you two are friends and friends sometimes know u better than you know your self so try and go further with her if you wish and see how she reacts

again this is a guys pov

good luck

Heavyrain4life
August 10th, 2012, 12:34 AM
Dont worry about labels. Its our way of separating people, and you should just do whatever you feel is best.