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heidenreich
July 21st, 2012, 03:01 PM
Hi, I keep seeing this girl I really like, but I dont particularly know her, we have spoken the odd time but nothing much. I really want to approach her but there is a few problems.
Main problem is im a fat ugly mofo, and im not talking myself down, I really am.
Another problem is that im seriously self conscious
Next problem is the fear of rejection.
Please can you help me guys and girls, Ive never had a girlfriend before and Im 14, I feel like a weirdo as all my friends have them and I dont and I would like to have one. I truly am in love with this girl but Im too scared to say anything.
Please help :'(

FullyAlive
July 21st, 2012, 04:44 PM
First I doubt you are in love if you don't know her, its just a crush.

And well you don't need to talk to her to become her boyfriend, approach her one day and just say hi try to become her friend first. Then you can get to know her more because for all you know you won't even like her that way at all. Talking to girls,us,easy though, we're just the same as guys :P just be friendly, smile, and act confident even if you aren't.

Ps. Everyone is beautiful