Creepy

[Roses_Are_Yellow]

I did something I'm starting to really regret, and now he won't leave me alone. I didn't answer his message, and he seemed upset when I replied five hours later...it was almost controlling. I don't even know him that well, but of course I was stupid and feeling insecure last night and just let him talk me up to feel good about myself. Why didn't I listen to my friends? They were telling me he sounded creepy, and told me to block him. So I lied to them, and now I wish I never did. What I did isn't too bad, but now I'm really uncomfortable. He constantly wants me to send pictures of myself to him, and I don't want to. God, I'm supposed to be the smart one. The one who's cautious enough not to get myself into this shit, but yet I did. He makes me feel uncomfortable, and he's not getting my hints at all. He gives me empty compliments, just to make me do what he wants.

I'm just wondering, has anyone else ever gone through this? How did you handle it?

[FreeFall]

Ask him to leave you alone, and mean it. Don't do the uhm can you pleeasseee leave alone please? Simply tell him you don't wish to contact him anymore or for him to contact you, thank you. Do not give him a reason, do not give anyone a reason for why you've stopped contact. He will use it against you, trust me. Keep the reason for cutting him off all to yourself. This is crucial. If he gets word of it, you'll have more to deal with.

If he does not respect your desire to keep out of your life and stop contact, tell him once more, to leave you alone. A flat out, leave me alone. Is all you need.
Do not engage with him at all once you've asked him to leave you alone. A simple hello could seem polite to you, but to him it can be an open invitation to start everything up all over again. Once you've ended contact with him, you've ended it. He's dead to you and zombies can't speak.
If he tried to contact you again, get an adult. If you've asked him twice now to leave you alone, you have not engaged him in any conversation or activity, he could become desperate.

Now, he cannot make you do anything even with empty compliments. You're the master of your own actions and only you can decide what you do.

[December]

This happened to me too.
How I handled it was I labeled his number as "Don't Answer" in my phone rather than deleting it, so I would know it was him if he ever tried to call/text me again. Then, I stopped answering all of his messages and calls and everything and completely ignored him. It was awkward for awhile because I saw him around a few times (one of which I literally just started running the other direction). After awhile though, he quit trying to get ahold of me and it was almost as if it never happened and I have not heard from him since then.

No matter how nice what he says is or how manipulative he tries to be or what he promises, you have to stay strong though. You have to realize that he probably is only saying it to try and get with you or get you to send him pictures and creepy stuff like that. Listen to your friends. It might seem cold or mean to just stop talking to him, but in the end, his feelings are not the most important here. If you want to be a little nicer about it, you could tell him that you won't be talking to him anymore, but I tried this and he just said he was going to kill himself (which he never did), that he needed me (which he didn't), that I was ruining his life (which is unlikely) and overall just threw what I would call a tantrum.

Anyways, best of luck to you, and you can always PM me if he still won't leave you alone and you need someone to talk to about it. Oh and if he really gets weird and you feel more uncomfortable, I would recommend telling an adult that you trust. Hope that this helped you in some way :)

[Harley Quinn]

I did something I'm starting to really regret, and now he won't leave me alone. I didn't answer his message, and he seemed upset when I replied five hours later...it was almost controlling. I don't even know him that well, but of course I was stupid and feeling insecure last night and just let him talk me up to feel good about myself. Why didn't I listen to my friends? They were telling me he sounded creepy, and told me to block him. So I lied to them, and now I wish I never did. What I did isn't too bad, but now I'm really uncomfortable. He constantly wants me to send pictures of myself to him, and I don't want to. God, I'm supposed to be the smart one. The one who's cautious enough not to get myself into this shit, but yet I did. He makes me feel uncomfortable, and he's not getting my hints at all. He gives me empty compliments, just to make me do what he wants.

I'm just wondering, has anyone else ever gone through this? How did you handle it?
What I did was ignore all existence of the person, that way after awhile they'll give up. Well, it might take longer than you expect but it will stop. If they aren't getting what they want, they'll go to someone else and the cycle will continue. If you don't like the ignore tactic, I suggest telling him that you don't want to talk anymore because he makes you fee uncomfortable, or just block him/delete him. You could confide in your friends and say you wanted to find out for yourself what he was like, and see what advice they can give you. But, everything that you do, is your actions and you can stop it if you're strong willed enough and won't get dragged back in. What he's asking you to do is illegal, therefore if you really wanted to you could seek police but, that's only a last resort if you can't get away from him.

[Roses_Are_Yellow]

Thanks guys for your advice. I haven't heard from him since the last time he wanted me to send him a picture of myself (not too sure whether it was with clothes on..or off), and I told him I really didn't want to. I took him off of my Facebook, so I think maybe he got the message.

Thank you again. I was starting to get really freaked out.

[Roses_Are_Yellow]

Ugh, yeah I take that back. He's texting me and asking me why I won't respond to his texts. Like, I HAVE a life. I don't always check my phone, and I'm not going to answer to his beck and call. I don't even know him that well, and he's just being clingy and annoying. (again, stupid me.)

I'm just going to keep ignoring him until he gets the point. All though, at this rate, it seems like it will take a while for him to get the message..

[unnamed94]

Ugh, yeah I take that back. He's texting me and asking me why I won't respond to his texts. Like, I HAVE a life. I don't always check my phone, and I'm not going to answer to his beck and call. I don't even know him that well, and he's just being clingy and annoying. (again, stupid me.)

I'm just going to keep ignoring him until he gets the point. All though, at this rate, it seems like it will take a while for him to get the message..

just ignore it. if he sees you deleted him from facebook and you ignore his texts then he will get it. dont answer him.

[FreeFall]

Can you block his number?

[anyone50]

Do you know this guy in real life or is he someone that you friended on face book and started a conversation with? If he dosn't know where you live or go to school just block him and ignore his text he will get the message eventually and move on proably to someone else sadly. on the other hand if he knows where you live or go to school you need to call the police and let them know he's pressuring you to send pictures they know how to trace this stuff and can fix the problem for you as well as any future victims he may have if not stopped