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~Luv_2_Skeet~
August 8th, 2007, 02:44 PM
Hi my name is Andro and life has been getting extremely tough for me. Im 15 years old and just started highschool. Also, i'm extrememly fat. I am so fat that my doctor recommended that i wear a chest supporter for my man boobs. ITS NOT A BRA. Kids in highschool make fun of me everyday and make fun of how i have boobs on my back. Recently, during P.E. after suiting out into gym clothes, a kid came up and pulled my shorts down. Everyone got a glimpse of my penis, which is only 2 inches long, and several girl saw me. Everyone has been making fun of me and school is just getting worse. I dont know what to do, life is just getting so hard.

please no jokes, only serious responses. any advice will help

Serenity
August 8th, 2007, 02:59 PM
Firstly, no one on these forums will EVER make fun of you! We're all here to help each other :daisy:

Secondly, you just have to learn to not let those jerks bother you. I know how hard that is, but think of it this way: if they are such low-lifes that they have no other purpose than to thrive on other peoples' misery, why should their opinions count? You are a wonderful person and will continue being a wonderful person despite their taunts. And by showing them you're not bothered by them, [even if you're just pretending- I've done that plenty of times] you'll intimidate them and they'll eventually back off.

Confidence is the only thing that can help you here, and that's something we all as individuals have to find for ourselves. Just remember how much more substance and worth you have than any of them, which is why all those things they say don't matter. Hold your head high and proud- show them how much respect you deserve by respecting yourself.

In the meantime, find some close friends who will stand by you and send the same message- strength in numbers always helps, and it's just nice knowing there are people on your side :)

Bobby
August 8th, 2007, 03:01 PM
Okay, well first off, don't get upset over the physical things in your life so much. As for you penis being 2 inches, you can't change that and your going to have to wait for that. I'm sure your not the only one in your school that has a 2 inch penis. As for your weight, you do sound a bit overweight by what you've said. I would suggest you start excersizing, and eating more healty.

Also, just ignore the kids who make fun of you. They are just being mean to be mean, and if you show weakness, they are just going to continue to pester you. If you really feel the bullying has gone over the edge, tell the principcal, conselor, or a teacher you feel comfortable walking with.

~Luv_2_Skeet~
August 8th, 2007, 03:20 PM
Okay, well first off, don't get upset over the physical things in your life so much. As for you penis being 2 inches, you can't change that and your going to have to wait for that. I'm sure your not the only one in your school that has a 2 inch penis. As for your weight, you do sound a bit overweight by what you've said. I would suggest you start excersizing, and eating more healty.

Also, just ignore the kids who make fun of you. They are just being mean to be mean, and if you show weakness, they are just going to continue to pester you. If you really feel the bullying has gone over the edge, tell the principcal, conselor, or a teacher you feel comfortable walking with.

thank you, but i have already tried ignoring the kids who make fun of me. it's tough because i'm just a freshman and all the senior jocks get the friends and pick on me. even one of my teachers likes to make fun of me, she doesnt do it seriously, but it doesnt make matters any help.

Serenity
August 8th, 2007, 03:22 PM
Why don't you ask your teacher to stop? If it's really bothering you, and she doesn't mean it out of malice, she'll stop immediately. And yeah, take Bobby's advice- ask a teacher, principal, or counselor to intervene.

Bobby
August 8th, 2007, 03:23 PM
A teacher making fun of you? As I said, tell someone you can trust.

Maverick
August 8th, 2007, 04:02 PM
User banned. Locked.