How do act in public? (Gay)

[xDILLIGAFx]

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[Jesse17]

Im the first one to reply yeah :))
i will try to act as normal as i can,,,,but
ill feel shy if there are some cute boys coming toward me

[xDILLIGAFx]

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[Harley Quinn]

I act as a any normal human being would, sexuality isn't something that makes me drastically different from my straight friends. I don't know how to explain but, yeah.

[boosterboy1]

Just act normal and be yourself, your sexuality doesn't dictate how you act lol

[rocketedd]

Came across this elsewhere. but it was discussing how gay people act in public, just wondering, if you are gay, how you act in public. As in if you have a boyfriend are you very open with it in public? From my own experience, because I am still in the closet to alot of people we mostly kept in the bedroom. I strongly believe the LGBT community have as much right to be affectionate etc in public as straight people do but because of obvious discrimination and prejudice, some people may be put off.


Yes thats true and I guess you have to consider how your partner feels as well. I cannot say if I am gay bi or straight - I am a curious teen and horny.
I just feel everyone can share teh love and when I was down and needed a friend - it was a gay guy I knew at school who came round and then the next day brought his freind. They shared their love and laughter and he reminded me of how at school times for him wre not so good with other boys hassling him and I stood up for him . Is this KARMA I dont know.


Sahre the love peopel cos if we cannot at teen times then who can:)

[tomcolly]

yeh i'd kinda just be yourself. i don't think sexuality should define you as a person, in the same way that skin colour doesn't etc. so just be natural!

[workingatperfect]

I had a girlfriend a couple years ago, and we were just affectionate as I would be with any guy when we were in public. I mean, society treats lesbians different than gay guys I guess, but I think either way you should be able to feel comfortable with your boyfriend in public, holding hands or kissing, whatever it may be. Just be yourself, don't worry about what other people may think about you. (:

[OregonStateDude]

Well, I don't have a boyfriend yet. But yeah, in public I act like any other ordinary guy. No one would have a clue I was gay unless I told them.

Yeah, I know it kinda sucks to have to hide who we really are, but I'm just not ready to deal with the haters yet.

[Cognizant]

Well, seeing that San Francisco, and the SF bay area as a whole is very accepting, if I had a boyfriend, I'd make it clear that I had a boyfriend! :P

[fast8]

yea i just say be yourself

[Noxail]

I'm totally open with my relationships. As a Bi girl just now stepping out, I'm totally un-afraid to admit that I'm Bi. Once I accepted it, all my friends stopped being so wierd and I was so happy to find out that my sexuality had no affect on my relationships with my friends. Just be yourself hun. :D ~Holli

[Abyssal Echo]

Well, I don't have a boyfriend yet. But yeah, in public I act like any other ordinary guy. No one would have a clue I was gay unless I told them.

Yeah, I know it kinda sucks to have to hide who we really are, but I'm just not ready to deal with the haters yet.

pretty much the same here lol ! like Peter I also act like any other ordinary guy in public. people I don't know wouldn't have a clue at all that I am gay. I have huged and kissed a guy in public like when we meet or say our good byes but I know of plenty of str8 people that do the same. If I had a bf that was out and comfortable with it I don't see why we couldn't hold hands or be affectionate in public.

[HOLEinyoursoul]

I'm kind of obviously gay though I don't even put any actual effort into it. Public Blake is not really a different person.

[TylerMN]

I don't think there is a way of acting "gay" or "lesbian". If you mean being lovey dovey with each other then I guess you could say. In my area, people would not even think twice about a gay couple in public. I myself is still in the closet however. So I do not act as if I am attracted to guys. Being yourself is harder for some people while easier for others but being that no one knows I am gay, it is quite hard. I really do want to go on a date with a guy though ... A real date.

[Sean4U]

Well, I don't have a boyfriend yet. But yeah, in public I act like any other ordinary guy. No one would have a clue I was gay unless I told them.

Yeah, I know it kinda sucks to have to hide who we really are, but I'm just not ready to deal with the haters yet.

Totally agree with Peter, just be yourself how you would act normally .... I do have a bf, sometimes we are close together in public but holding hands depends on where we are...sometimes I feel it sucks that boys/girls can act all close and hold hand and arms around each other, but we have to sort of be aware of where we are before we do that....I guess the gu from SF is right, there it is accepted more than other places, but do what feels right for you....

[guycuberguy]

i act normal i
i am gay and i am sure that no one have an idea about it becouse i dont act like gay.

[Portable Desert]

I just act the way I normally do. With boyfriends, I don't hide anything. If someone has a problem then they are just going to have to cope.

[Losing Sanity79]

Well, I lean more towards gay. So... what I do, is, I just act straight when I'm with my family. While I'm with my friends, that's a whole nother story. Just do what you feel is natural. Haha! XD

[crisel]

I have a gay friend in which he do act in a formal way and dress in a decent manner. He confesses that he is really a gay. One proof is his voice.

[jjsmitty]

I'm bi but currently in a gay relationship and we have been together for years. Sure we get a few strange looks walking around town holding hands etc and always the odd jeer or two but I think people should act how they want to act in public. However I dont see the need for people to get hot'n'heavy (snogging and groping etc) in public so we dont do it. I also understand that alot of people are offended by our public promotions of our sexuality but to be honest those are people I probably wouldn't want to socialise with anyway. I suppose it also depends on whether you dress up as a rainbow and bounce around or can carry yourself off as a straight guy as both me and my partner can do. But hey, be who you wanna be, sod the rest! :D