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Ginganinja
July 19th, 2012, 10:17 PM
so my gf and i have been going out for 8 months now and all of my friends say that we have the best relationship ever and i think that we do too. but the thing is that we never fight at all like both of out personalitys are just so go with the flow we just dont fight about anything at all. everyone i know has fought with there gf by this long into a relationship. is this a good thing that we dont fight or does it set us up for like one really big fight if somthing snaps that cold break us up please help i would love to here from both guys and girls

WaffleSingSong
July 19th, 2012, 10:26 PM
so my gf and i have been going out for 8 months now and all of my friends say that we have the best relationship ever and i think that we do too. but the thing is that we never fight at all like both of out personalitys are just so go with the flow we just dont fight about anything at all. everyone i know has fought with there gf by this long into a relationship. is this a good thing that we dont fight or does it set us up for like one really big fight if somthing snaps that cold break us up please help i would love to here from both guys and girls

Well, you guys must really get along together pretty well. However, not all relationships are perfect, and some day, you might fight. However, you must always, if you do love them, well...remember you do. I hate couples of my friends that break up because of something stupid, and then go out with others still having a crush on the former because they do not understand that they still have affection for them at that moment.

Noirtier
July 19th, 2012, 10:44 PM
Well, you guys must really get along together pretty well. However, not all relationships are perfect, and some day, you might fight. However, you must always, if you do love them, well...remember you do. I hate couples of my friends that break up because of something stupid, and then go out with others still having a crush on the former because they do not understand that they still have affection for them at that moment.

What Nikifor said. Not fighting isn't a bad thing. However, don't think that you will never fight, because that day will come. Not fighting does NOT mean, however, that it's all building up for one giant, mega-fight. Every couple has a fight every once in a while, because people don't agree on everything, and people get on each other's nerves every once in a while. When that day comes, however, remember that you love that person and do NOT intentionally do or say something to hurt them. (My aunt even has a rule--no name calling when you're fighting) and I would suggest never going to bed angry with one another. Resolving conflict in a healthy way is a key to a healthy and lasting relationship

Ginganinja
July 20th, 2012, 11:15 PM
Thanks guys

West Coast Sheriff
July 20th, 2012, 11:47 PM
it is gr8 u never fight:cool: