Not knowing what to do

[AndCuriousGuy16]

Over the years i have noticed that i am sexually attracted to guys but i also like girls. I feel that im Bi but i cant seem to that i am. I have told a best friend that i might be Bi and he didnt say much and we really dont talk that much anymore. I really dont know if i should say that im Bi or not. Any ideas or help would be appreciated!

[Noirtier]

Well, you said yourself you feel that you are bi. As for saying you are or not--"coming out"--well, that's a different story. Coming out has it's advantages and disavantages (which can be seen here (http://www.virtualteen.org/forums/showthread.php?t=134627), as well as some other advice on this). The fact of the matter is, people are cruel and many are still homophobic. There are those who will judge you for being bi. However, there are also those who will treat you no differently than when they thought you were straight, and who will love you the same. The people that judge you, they don't really care about you if they can't accept you as you are. The people that love you anyway, they're who you should focus on being friends with. Well, there's my two cents. Hope I helped, man!

[HOLEinyoursoul]

Well have you experienced both men and women? See what it's like, then maybe you can have some closure on it :)

[AndCuriousGuy16]

Well ive done stuff with guys but not much with girls. I know i should wait but at the same time it feels right emotionally but not physically.

[eggy101]

you have to experiment with both genders to truely know

[imless]

Don't ask yourself anymore of who you are, your own deeds will say/answer it to where you are happy with! In the company of girls or in guys.

[crisel]

The good thing there is at least you know what you really are. It's hard to pretend.

[Daracon]

Dude I am in the exact boat you are! For me it feels just right being with another man, almost natural, but I don't get an erection looking at butt naked men, but I can feel connection to some guys and would even consider getting married to one. I would also like to have sex with them as well but my attraction is really based on emotion, somewhat physical because I have types of guys I like and don't like.
Edit- If you wan't to talk about it more message me, I think we can relate.

[War-Is-Real]

You may never know...

[AndCuriousGuy16]

Well after reading all the posts, i believe that i might just be bicurious. But still, i keep thinking i should tell people. But the more and more i think about it, i feel that i should wait until i am older especially if i am Bi. Also if i came out to my parents and they asked if i had experiences with both sexes, it wouldn't be as awkward especially since i would be older.