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jdc123
July 19th, 2012, 03:33 PM
Would I be considered gay if I asked someone to masturbate with me even though I'm straight? We talk about Masturbation and girls all the time so it wouldnt be out of the blue.

SWMG
July 19th, 2012, 03:35 PM
Not at all, besides you wouldnt be the only guy that has jacked off with a friend before. If you are both ok with it , go for it!

Gigablue
July 19th, 2012, 04:47 PM
No. Being gay means that you are attracted physically and emotionally to guys. Masturbating with another guy doesn't make you gay. If both of you want to, go for it.

Jay_Team_Swagg
July 19th, 2012, 04:50 PM
No you wouldn't, you'd just be curious

jamesh
July 19th, 2012, 05:00 PM
No - definitely not. It just means that you're horny and curious

OregonStateDude
July 19th, 2012, 05:18 PM
Being gay is more than just touching another guy's wang. It's really a state of mind. For example, I can appreciate the cuteness of another guy and not even want to fool around with him.

Sean4U
July 19th, 2012, 05:21 PM
no that wouldn't make you gay at all...i mean gay guys masturbate with str8 boys and str8s do it with str8s.....its just your hormones and curiosity

Jesse17
July 20th, 2012, 10:30 AM
i assume you are curious about that, and it's normal when you are growing

tomcolly
July 20th, 2012, 11:12 AM
nah ur fine. i wouldn't try and force it too much though. just kinda let it happen :)

AndCuriousGuy16
July 20th, 2012, 01:48 PM
No you are just curious. You could say that 85% of teen guys experiment while going through puberty. Its normal!

cpr97
July 20th, 2012, 02:44 PM
Definitely not gay, unless you fall in love with him or have emotional feelings for him otherwise it's just a few buddies enjoying themselves getting off together

Losing Sanity79
July 20th, 2012, 02:46 PM
It doesn't make you gay. Its just what guys do! xD Nothing is wrong with it.

Giles
July 21st, 2012, 06:57 AM
Just shouting it out during a conversation, whether it's about masturbation already or not, would seem a bit odd and I know that if I did that with any of my friends they'd most likely think I was crazy (if they didn't know that I'm gay and also weird, lol). You'd be better off hinting towards it in an already sexual situation, truth or dare, put porn on etc. Recommending ways to get guys to do this kind of thing is against the rules though, so it would be unwise to go into too much detail.

president1234
July 21st, 2012, 09:52 AM
No, but just make sure it is during an appropriate time and you ask a good friend you trust.

Cognizant
July 21st, 2012, 10:02 AM
Nope.

Young Wolf
July 21st, 2012, 10:03 AM
In that case you could just say to guy - Dya fancy jo sometime together - he can only say no!

Giles
July 21st, 2012, 10:47 AM
In that case you could just say to guy - Dya fancy jo sometime together - he can only say no!

Tbh I think there's a load more things he could say. VT is an isolated environment, people are relatively anonymous, so even the straightest of straight guys can openly say that they like dicks, but that's not how it works in the real world.

LatinaVivit
July 21st, 2012, 10:53 AM
If you're curious, say you're curious. I can't understand why a straight guy would do that with another straight guy. In any case, I feel like we should be labeling everything, but in my opinion that would be gay.(and yeah, I am gay)

Michael Anthony
July 21st, 2012, 04:20 PM
nah man, it's totally normal. a lot of us jerk off with friends if the opportunity is there to do it .

Jim Ekon
July 23rd, 2012, 05:46 AM
No, don't think so

justin123
July 23rd, 2012, 05:49 PM
No. Your just a curious person.

branman2000
July 23rd, 2012, 05:51 PM
nope, you would be considered horny... not gay! :)

cmh861
July 24th, 2012, 10:42 PM
I think if your both ok with it then it will be fine. Or what you can do is do what happend to me jack off when he is about to come over let him barge in (like my buddy did) then maybe he will ask to join in.

Jtyler
July 24th, 2012, 10:44 PM
Not at all it's completely normal

Bradley 97
July 25th, 2012, 04:06 PM
No you're fine:p ask him! I bet he is thinking the exact same thing!

Jaysonn
July 27th, 2012, 12:28 PM
Not at all- always wanted to do it - exciting- its something fun to do with something else that is sexually exciting- if your sitting their thinking how much you 'like' that person while you do it then it would- but if not- go for it, I can't wait to!

Enjoy! ;)

EdwardBi15
July 27th, 2012, 12:44 PM
No your just haveing fun! Or your BI

Ben_E
July 27th, 2012, 04:16 PM
Its 100% normal and if your both already talking bout jerking, then it won't be awkward conversation to have. Just make sure your both kewl with doing it, and remember some people change as soon as the cum. So i would from personal experience discuss the after cum losing all the hornyness, and will it make either of you uncomfortable. It's very easy to deal with though, it's like a 2min awkward situation then its all good and never happens again.

DamoMac
July 27th, 2012, 07:21 PM
I don't think you can be classified as being gay for that, but I don't really believe in sexually orientated labels in society as a whole. Simply put, hormones are raging at this point, so wanting to do something experimental and different is completely normal in my eyes. I would not stress about it to much, it's just a normal phase of life, wanting to try some new things. You are fine dude!

Booker
July 27th, 2012, 07:57 PM
It's not gay.

LSEagle2
November 5th, 2012, 12:14 AM
Not gay at all man, many people encounter this

BakeBake
November 5th, 2012, 04:25 PM
Not at all... You are just curious, and you guys can even go further past that, you can give each other hand jobs, blow jobs, and even have anal sex and it to not be considered gay... Gay means that you want to the spend the rest of your life with another male, and if you begin to feel a very strong sexual attraction to him and you want to be with him forever then you might be considered gay... But just messing around and having fun with each other is not considered gay... You are in your teenage years, so just enjoy it and have fun with other guys! :D

Lost in the Echo
November 5th, 2012, 04:33 PM
No, you wouldn't be gay just because of that. You're just curious, as is everyone who is going through puberty, it's fine.

showoffboy
November 5th, 2012, 06:41 PM
there seem to be straight guys who will do things with other guys. and even if one of u were gay, its no big deal.

dusman77
November 6th, 2012, 02:39 PM
I don't think so. I know I would ask him if i was close with him.