Gay friend

[TrentRyan]

My gay friend doesn't hide the fact that he's attracted to me at all. In fact he announces it to me often. I'm bicurious, but afraid of taking it any further than friends because he lives close to me. He knows I'm curious and pushes for me to do stuff. I want to do stuff, but the urge not to is stronger. What should I do? Should I tell him I don't want to do it because I don't want it getting out? Or what? Any advice helps.

[StoppingTime]

Tell him you aren't comfortable. You shouldn't be pushed into anything you don't want to do, especially things of this nature.
Just tell him to take it slowly, and see where it goes from there. You aren't obligated to do anything with him, so don't feel pressured into it.

[Christheman]

Yes just tell him look i would prefer if we stayed friends.

[sms22]

Just be honest with him and don't worry a lot friends go through these things. Good luck

[LatinaVivit]

I'm sure if you just tell him the truth he'll be okay with it. Gay guys at the age are super horny and he'll move along quickly. Trust me, I know haha. I've like a guy one day then thought he was a troll the next day.

[Losing Sanity79]

If your not ready, just tell him. He will understand. If I were you, I would also want to keep it under wraps...

[dontfiguremeout]

If you don't wanna do it, you don't have to do it! No one can force you into anything! Plus the way he is really open to you and asking you might not be the same friendship you had before you did it. So it really comes down to, should I do it and risk the friendship? I mean it's a 50/50 chance that you guys will either keep the same friendship or the friendship will just be a little awkward now.

[TheMatrix]

Puberty :arrow: Sexuality
It isn't exactly puberty, you know.

[Sean4U]

Yes, if you're not comfortable, just tell him. As Latina said at our age our hormones take control...he may feel that you have some feeling and desires to do stuff, but you have to do what you feel is right....he should understand...and yes, he may just move on then ....but tell him you like him as a friend and would like to be just friends.....

[Silver Fox]

Only do it if you want to, don't let him pressure you into it, only when you're comfortable!

[OregonStateDude]

If he's a true friend, then he shouldn't be pushing for you to do stuff. If you want to fool around, it should be your decision, not his.

I'm gay, and yeah, I think my best friend is cute. But I don't go announcing that fact to him every time we hang out. The last thing I want to do is make him feel uncomfortable, because my "friendship" feelings towards him top everything else.

[Sean4U]

If he's a true friend, then he shouldn't be pushing for you to do stuff. If you want to fool around, it should be your decision, not his.

I'm gay, and yeah, I think my best friend is cute. But I don't go announcing that fact to him every time we hang out. The last thing I want to do is make him feel uncomfortable, because my "friendship" feelings towards him top everything else.

exactly Peter, I agree, my best friend, other than my bf, is totally cute and I would love if he were gay too but the friendship means so much to me .... well maybe i should say if I didn't have a bf I'd wish he were gay :D

[hey_mister]

If you don't want to, then tell him that, if you're close friends, then I'm sure he'll understand.

[PinkFloyd]

Yeah man, just tell him you don't want to do anything like that, and stay friends. If you guys are good friends, he will understand.

[eggy101]

Talk to him, he wont tell anyone if he is a real friend

[imless]

Confront her! Her? I mean let him know that you're not comfortable.

[crisel]

You better let him know what you really feel because it's you who will suffer then if you will push yourself to a thing you didn't like to do.