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Writinthefuture2247
July 18th, 2012, 09:36 PM
Ok so my friend was at my house all day and just decided to sleep over. But he keeps trying to crap for my crotch and is askin me if h bjd me would I bj him. Idk what to do. What would u guys do?

Slosh
July 19th, 2012, 01:41 AM
If you want to experiment with him then do it. It's quite common actually. If you don't want to then say it clearly so he'd stop.

dontfiguremeout
July 19th, 2012, 01:57 AM
Yeah, agree with Slosh ^^^. If you wanna experiment as your friend is kinda physically showing he wants too, and if you don't, then tell him politely you don't wanna do it.

Scotland
July 19th, 2012, 07:24 AM
Like the posts above me said, if you want to then go for it but judging by the post you don't really want to, ask him to politely stop ... if he doesn't then i'd ask him to leave :)

-Scotland

Christheman
July 19th, 2012, 08:26 AM
If you want to experiment with him then go for it, but if he is making you uncomfortable than tell him to stop.

Sean4U
July 19th, 2012, 09:00 AM
Guess I'll make it unanimous and say if you want to do it....if not, tell him that you don't want to and are uncomfortable with him always asking

nhhssuperstar
July 19th, 2012, 11:40 AM
Talk to him about it and decide if you want to do it if not tell him you aren't interested

Losing Sanity79
July 19th, 2012, 12:55 PM
It seems that you have a friend who wants to expirement. If you aren't comfortable with it, tell him.

jamesh
July 19th, 2012, 02:43 PM
haha - there are plenty of guys on here that wish they were in your situation! He obviously wants to experiment, and if you are curious, you possibly want to as well. But think carefully about it... If you do go ahead, you should know what your limits are. And if you tell him to stop, I would suggest doing it gently and leaving it kinda open to re-visit if you want to somewhere down the line.

cpr97
July 19th, 2012, 02:50 PM
Doesn't matter what we would do, it's about how you feel and what you want... If your curious about it go for it if your uncomfortable tell him just be honest with him

EdwardBi15
July 27th, 2012, 08:49 AM
Do it! I do it all the time! It does not make you gay you're just having fun!

Chaos42
July 27th, 2012, 09:36 AM
What others have said is valid. If you want to experiment with your friend, which he is obviously up for, and is perfectly normal and natural, go for it. However, if he is making you uncomfortable and you want him to stop, you should talk to him about it, tell him nicely; and if he doesn't stop, tell an adult.

Coolcat1314
July 27th, 2012, 10:30 PM
well if that were my friend id definitely go for it. but it depends on what you wanna do and what you are comfortable with. if he is making you uncomfortable then tell him to stop or drop some strong hints.

Sol90
July 27th, 2012, 10:52 PM
Don't do it if you feel uncomfortable.

curiousme
July 28th, 2012, 12:47 PM
i would so do it!! u get a bj out of it do it!

Teenage heart throb
July 28th, 2012, 02:53 PM
Just say, hey I like being friends, but that is ALL so please respect my wishes and keep to yourself

cmh861
July 29th, 2012, 09:52 AM
I would do it with him. Me and my bud do it all the time and we love it

Liam-O
July 29th, 2012, 10:00 AM
He is probably curious. Do it if you feel comfortable but don't be pressured into it. If you do not want to do it then tell him to stop it. But me and my friend experiment all the time and we go further than BJ's.

LDK Ven
August 1st, 2012, 05:52 AM
just do what you feel okay with. if youre ok with bj do it. if not tell him im not very comfy with bjs , we can handjob each other. or compare. or nothing. depends on what you want

ianc96
August 1st, 2012, 07:02 AM
He's at your house, so you call the shots. If you want to experiment/compare or whatever, then say it's ok. Otherwise, tell him no, and if he keeps it up and you feel uncomfortable, tell him to leave.

xgetbAkEdx45
August 2nd, 2012, 02:31 AM
If u don't like it tell him to knock it off but if u want to go for it as long as ur both chill with it

Philip97
August 2nd, 2012, 03:40 AM
If u wann do it do it. If not don't tell him to stfu. Personally I would defo not do it 1. I'm straight 2. If someone is trying to force me they are desperate and wanting to use me

happy16
August 13th, 2012, 03:57 PM
I'd defo go for it if i were you

jokermaster101
August 13th, 2012, 06:23 PM
that seems ok, he is curious. let him be. ive been offered things by girls, not guys. but i can see where u r in the situation

NoviZivot
August 13th, 2012, 06:25 PM
I agree with the others, do what u want to do! :)

Scottydog
August 13th, 2012, 06:39 PM
Do what you feel comfortable with :)

Michael Anthony
August 13th, 2012, 09:50 PM
depends on how you feel.
if i had a friend like that i'd give it a try with him
but if your uncomfortable then tell him

garrettu
August 13th, 2012, 10:08 PM
It's put to u what u should do, do what u r comfortable with

Ian10
August 13th, 2012, 10:20 PM
Tell him no haha

cpkid09
August 13th, 2012, 10:33 PM
he probably just wants to experiment and stuff. if u don't want to its fine just tell him to stop being so forward

justinglives
August 14th, 2012, 03:34 AM
Agree w every body above.
Experimenting is totally normal. If ure curious. Set limits B4 u start. U might set the first time as just handjobs to make sure he wont push further. If that goes ok. Then next time go gor the bj"s. (Or more if thats what u want to do.......)

Moxacho
August 14th, 2012, 07:46 AM
If you want do it,you have to decide.

chetbonare
August 14th, 2012, 08:41 AM
If you want to experiment with him then go for it, but if he is making you uncomfortable than tell him to stop.


Exactly. Simple as that :)

Jmac
August 14th, 2012, 10:58 PM
If you want it I would go for it

Jaysonn
August 16th, 2012, 03:50 PM
Don't do anything you don't feel comfortable with! :)

justin123
August 16th, 2012, 03:55 PM
i would if i was asked

deathmoonO2
August 24th, 2012, 06:24 PM
if you dont want to do it, you can tell him that you dont want to do it. but if you want, its okay.

Goatzbro
August 24th, 2012, 06:57 PM
Well, It is entirely up to you. If you want to do it then do it, If you don't want to then tell him clearly and concisely so he knows his boundaries.

Troy35216
June 21st, 2013, 03:05 PM
holy crap i've never seen a ten month bump before.

Yolo2000
June 21st, 2013, 03:20 PM
holy crap i've never seen a ten month bump before.

There has been about 15 of em today lol

dontfiguremeout
June 21st, 2013, 03:27 PM
There has been about 15 of em today lol

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