Girls?

[pmm98]

I can not, for the life of me, figure out how girls work >.<

I'm a really nice, funny guy when it comes to girls. I'm always sweet and I try not to be an ass to them. They always whine that they want a guy that treats them right and is kind to them, caring, thoughtful etc. but yet they only go after the guy that are assholes? And than I end up getting put in the friendzone? And than they come and CRY to me when the asshole guy dumps them! I have even had girls ask if I was gay because I was nice to them? What the hell is that about? Since when does being nice make someone gay?! And I have had girls that KNOW I am straight say they wish I was gay because I would be so fun? Like wtf is that about? It really annoys me sometimes, like seriously?

All I want is a girl that will be NORMAL with me. We can be cute together, she has a sense of humor and can take some teasing, and she's just nice and not crazy like some of the other girls I described above! How do I find that?

[Christheman]

they truly like assholes in my opionon

[pmm98]

they truly like assholes in my opionon

So I should be more of an asshole to get the girls that I like?

[brisk]

So I should be more of an asshole to get the girls that I like?

Basically. I'd say you should push it a little more - and not be a pushOVER. While being nice is great, it's not fun for them to have everything go perfectly for them. Then there's no point to the relationship.

Though, I do agree that they always fall for the wrong guy.
R

[Lithium]

I swear this happens to me all the time, I've had girls ask if I'm gay cause I'm really nice to them. It really sucks but I finally found a girl that's actually nice and we tease each other all the time but at first she used to ask me if I was gay, it was really annoying.
Good luck finding a girl though :P

[PinkFloyd]

I met my gf in 7th grade. She would always ask if im gay. I stopped that by asking her out. she said yes. (We biked to a holiday gas station and got monsters) This gay question has never been asked by her since lol. Btw, best date ever. xD

[johngotti]

So I should be more of an asshole to get the girls that I like?

if you cant beat em join em

[inexracercjd]

they truly like assholes in my opionon

ya i agree sometimes i think they like guys that are mean and treat them like crap so they can get the atention of all the other boys trying to show they could be better bfs and the atention of the other girls to feel bad for them cuz their bf is so mean the only thing i know about girls for a fact is they like atention from their bf, friends and any1 else they can get it from

girls like nice guys as friends and like assholes as bfs not saying be a asshole 2 get a gf but if ur 2 nice of a person they will just think of u as a friend cuz they also want their bf 2 be some1 who will protect them from other ppl and stuff and they dont see a nice goody goody boy as some1 who can protect them they want a "badass" 2 protect them but at the sametime want their bf 2 be nice 2 them when they are alone dude basiclay girls are wicked confusing