Bi? Gay? IDK...

[colz]

So I've been trying to figure this out for a while now, and I just want to hear other opinions.

So, let me first start out by saying I know I'm not straight, and I have come out to several friends as 'bi' and they've all been pretty cool about it... but here's my 'dilemma' or problem or whatever... Most of the time I am attracted to guys, and girls ehh, not so much... I had a girlfriend in my Sophomore year and that was fine and all, I still find girls attractive, I just don't know about sexually... honestly I sometimes get turned off when thinking of girls sexually... but I think I can still have an emotional towards a girl, but I feel like I would have a stronger relationship w/ a guy. I find myself having those 'small crushes' on guys much more often than girls.

I've never really done anything w/ a guy before, it's just what I know and how I feel. And yes I know it's just a label, but I feel like I need to figure this out before I go any further into the coming out process. But, IDK, what do you think?

Thanks in advance!

[Losing Sanity79]

Well, I am the exact same way. I have many crushes, and many gay friends. I have come out to my friends, not all though. I am primarily attracted to guys, but I still have that girl passion. xD Anywho, If that's who you are, stick with it!

[Harley Quinn]

Only you know what you are, we can't really tell you seeing as we aren't you. However, it sounds like you more gay than bi, or at least 70% leaning towards guys on the bi spectrum. Don't force a label onto yourself though just because you want to know what you are, if you don't know now, you'll know soon - it's not really that big of a deal. Come out when you're personally ready, there isn't a rush.

[LatinaVivit]

I think after awhile, you'll know deep down what you are. I guess only time can give you your answer. Good luck!

[SkeptiqL]

You sound exactly the same as me and (my personal view) I've classes myself as gay :)

[KenBoy6]

Just be yourself

[Sean4U]

You don't have to come out to anyone at all....just be who you are and let things progress as they will for YOU.....you may feel attracted to guys, but with no experience its hard to say but you sound like you believe your on the gay side of "bi"....but as has been said...only time will tell there is no hurry ....

[Jesse17]

in recently years, more and more people have the same problems, and i am no exception.
but i heard some people saying maybe it is becuz you haven't found the right person to date and that's y u r curious on this dilemma.
For me, i think im 70 percent gay and 30 percent st8, but i am totally sure if i came to find the exact right girl, ill date her certainly, there's always a chance, always~

[hey_mister]

Only you can determine your sexuality, you may not know it yet, but you will, just be yourself, and just remember, there is nothing wrong with being gay.

[eggy101]

Just ket it pan out your still in the hormonal pubertal phase

[imless]

I think you're in hurry in knowing who you are, time will say who you are in the near future.