Am i Bi?

[Pedro Fernandes]

Hi, im 14 and idk if i am bi.
I like girls and i love boobies and all those stuff but i have an attractiion to men to, i really would like to imagine myself blowing someone or having anal and stuff.
Does that make me bi?
I'd like if someone who got past same would talk to me :/

[CrossingtheCourtyard]

The only thing that "makes" you bisexual is if you can see yourself in a relationship with men or women.

People who are bisexual (like myself, and you, possibly) have an emotional/romantic and physical attraction to men and to women.

[Pedro Fernandes]

Well, im not like watching myself marrying a guy, i think im just curious...

[CrossingtheCourtyard]

That's rather normal. Most teens--guys in particular, I believe--are curious of the same sex and are prone to "experimenting" and whatnot.

If you can't see yourself in a relationship with another boy--as in waking up next to them, going on dates, sharing an apartment/home together, kissing, ect... then you most likely aren't bisexual.

[Noirtier]

That's rather normal. Most teens--guys in particular, I believe--are curious of the same sex and are prone to "experimenting" and whatnot.

If you can't see yourself in a relationship with another boy--as in waking up next to them, going on dates, sharing an apartment/home together, kissing, ect... then you most likely aren't bisexual.

What he said. I discovered.. no, rather accepted the fact that I am bisexual earlier this summer. Being bisexual doesn't mean JUST feeling an attraction to guys--that can easily come from curiosity during puberty. It means you can see yourself in a healthy, successful relationship with either a guy or a girl. If you can't, chances are you aren't bisexual.

[Losing Sanity79]

Well, I am bi. Just liking both things doesn't mean you are. It's just hormones.

[thatluikid]

You might just be going through a phase that most teens go through, but the only way you will actually know is if you have some sort of relationship with a guy, and like it.

[Lost in the Echo]

You are bi-curious, which means you are open to experimenting with the same gender. Now bi-sexual would mean you would want to have a relationship romantically with both genders. As for being "bi" it seems you are bi-curious ( nothing wrong with that, its teenage hormones), but I don't think you are bi-sexual.

[Christheman]

hormones and heterosexual crushes play a big role

[Jonathan1998]

I'm purely bi I like girls and boobies and I imagine doing them but I imagine blowing a guy off and recieving anal and stuff and if you think and feel all that stuff then you are Bisexual

[War-Is-Real]

Bi-curious
Nothing more for right now.

[ianc96]

I went through something similar around 14. I started wanting to kiss guys and suck their penis, but it will pass.

[caliz55]

I myself was in this situation, I liked guys and thought everything you mentioned. now I'm openly bi (to myself because parents are homo-phobic) , don't worry you'll find yourself, experiment or tell a good friend your situation (be sure your friend will accept it, it'll be better to tell a girl). Good luck, and don't worry it's totally natural. :)

[ExhibitG]

i think at 14 years old, it's very hard to determine one's sexuality. a lot can change within a few years, but for now i don't think you are any more than just bicurious. if the feeling grow toward men over time, then perhaps you'll evolve into bisexuality but just cross that bridge when you get to it.

[Dyl.l.]

I think your curious