View Full Version : Straight and Jackin off with a friend???
datstr8guyy
July 17th, 2012, 03:43 PM
i have a really good mate, we are both totally straight and i could have the opportunity to jack off with him. would you? Anyone been in the same situation? Is this gay or anything and scare him lol? Was it good or did it damage the friendship or anything..
Thanks guys
BaNd
July 17th, 2012, 03:54 PM
I would. unfortunately I haven't been in the same situation lol and not its not gay normal
Stryker125
July 17th, 2012, 04:11 PM
Nah it doesn't make you gay or anything. As long as you're both comfortable with it and want to do it, there's nothing wrong with it.
StoppingTime
July 17th, 2012, 04:15 PM
While this doesn't make you gay, it also means that you are not "100% Straight" as you claim to be. You are going through a curious phase. During puberty, your hormones are acting up, and they are making you curious about the same sex. That is both common and normal, and you have nothing to worry about.
Yes, it could damage your relationship. If he isn't comfortable with it, you aren't, (even if you/him don't admit it) etc... then things could take a turn.
Personally, I don't think it's worth endangering a relationship over ten minutes; that's just me. If you choose to, just be safe and careful.
giles2603
July 17th, 2012, 04:19 PM
No its perfectly normal to experiment. You never know, you might like it better than doing stuff with a girl. Sometimes you have to try differnt things with different genders otherwise you'll never know what its like.
And i would if i was you but unfortunately i haven't been in your situation yet :(
Lost in the Echo
July 17th, 2012, 04:25 PM
I am straight and I have beat off with my cousin a couple of times to porn, don't worry, there is nothing gay about it, it's similar to comparing size. The only way it would be gay is if you guys touched each other and shit like that.
Michael Anthony
July 18th, 2012, 06:03 PM
a lot of str8 guys masturbate together. nothing to worry about. kind of a nice thing for friends to do with each other
Thunder1117
July 18th, 2012, 06:16 PM
dont worry, that is normal :)
Christheman
July 18th, 2012, 06:18 PM
do it its totally fine
inexracercjd
July 18th, 2012, 09:26 PM
if ur both comfortable with it go for it but dont pressure him into it
Sean4U
July 19th, 2012, 09:21 AM
Definitely if your comfortable with it, then go for it...I've done it with str8 friends and know str8 guys that i know have done it together....just enjoy it if you both feel it is something you want to do....
rocketedd
July 19th, 2012, 09:39 AM
I do with some and not with others. You just have to be certain he wants to.
YOu know your mate we dont -
Or best not to ask if you think it will ruin a freindship
Ed 14 not sure about gay staright or bi but curios and horny.
Short Circuit
July 19th, 2012, 10:07 AM
They are not called jerk buddies for nothing. Its not gay if you do it WITH him, and not doing each other
Evan-9
July 19th, 2012, 10:21 AM
Ive done it before and we are still friends. everyone does it.
nhhssuperstar
July 19th, 2012, 11:35 AM
It is normal. I have done it with 4 friends at the same time and also with cousins
Ginganinja
July 19th, 2012, 01:28 PM
its normal ive done it once it was different btu still fun. we both just disided to never talk about it again but we are still good friends i say go for it
cpr97
July 19th, 2012, 02:53 PM
Different for everyone, is it gay? No absolutely not your not gay or bi unless you have emotional feelings for soneone of the same sex
If you both wanna do it go for it I suppose it can only hurt your friendship if you allow it to
karejeet
July 19th, 2012, 06:57 PM
very straight, done it before, do it currently but not atm, and will do it forsure in the future ! :)
hey_mister
July 19th, 2012, 11:55 PM
Yeah it's normal, a lot of guys are curious and experiment with their friends.
habbohop
August 9th, 2012, 06:54 PM
Happenning to me now, I haven't asked him yet though, I'm not sure if he is straight or curious like me either though,
The realist
August 9th, 2012, 09:06 PM
I would but im also bi
Pyro99
August 10th, 2012, 11:33 AM
Its not gay if youre good friends.Im still trying to find a way to ask my friend to do it.If anyone here has an idea,pm me!
West Coast Sheriff
August 10th, 2012, 11:37 AM
I wouldn't but this is completely normal so if you both feel comfortable then go ahead
Jarredm3
August 10th, 2012, 08:35 PM
It ok for straight guys to jack with each other.
frankrocky
August 10th, 2012, 09:19 PM
If your friend is ok with jackin with you then I would do it. Jackin with a friend doesn't make you gay. It will probably make you closer friends.
The captain
August 10th, 2012, 09:32 PM
pretty normal...I'm straight and did it too
Danny13
August 10th, 2012, 09:42 PM
I think you should go for it. Ive done it before and it seems really fun to me!
daemon13
August 10th, 2012, 09:59 PM
the same here, we tried many times and it's really fun and no harm to your friendship.
austeenboy
August 10th, 2012, 10:16 PM
Yeah it is normal, my mate and me did it, see how big each other was, amount of cum. Just to see if we were both average or not. Though would never touch another guy. So I say it was all straight.
Rodeo
August 10th, 2012, 10:58 PM
Its not gay at all nor is it wierd or scary. I have been in that situation and have done it it is actually quite fun. Go ahead and have fun.
Ben_E
August 11th, 2012, 01:30 AM
Yeah totally normal, not gay just a fun thing to do with your mate. Me and mate started doing it awhile back, then we found out our other two mates were jacking with each other. We all had a laugh about it, now the 4 of us jack and its great fun.
alphus
August 12th, 2012, 09:57 AM
Been in the same situation and would do it again if I could! We're really good friends still :)
curiousme
August 12th, 2012, 12:48 PM
do it man! its just two friends jerking off together nothing bad about it i tried it with a couple of my friends everythings fine still but he moved..
chetbonare
August 12th, 2012, 01:42 PM
I might would if he's close to me, and I dont think its "gay" to touch yourself and someone see. since he's prob already seen you in that way
justinglives
August 12th, 2012, 08:47 PM
Jerking off w a friend can b REALLY HOT!!!!
I've done it w couple of buds and it was awesome!! Sometime w porn, sometimes not. Sometimes lights on, sometimes not. Its all abt wht ure comfortable wth.
*** Only thing is like the second one guy starts to cum, the other guy blows off on his next stroke! Lmao!
NeutraltEAm4za
August 12th, 2012, 10:58 PM
I have been there and it is tough. Unfortunately the friend i decided to do it with wasnt as close as i had though, so it did hurt our friendship a little but that was only temporary and it was just not the right person. If you think he is and what not, then by all means go for it but you have to be ready for whatever happens. Just remember that you could loose a friend or you could gain some really great trust and closeness with him too. Also, it doesnt make you gay at all. Its totally normal at this age to be experimenting. its just a part of growing up.
cpkid09
August 12th, 2012, 10:59 PM
i basically have the same problem and people say just joke around and be like wanna c my dick and stuff
Ian10
August 12th, 2012, 11:08 PM
Your good, do it man
sparta
August 12th, 2012, 11:21 PM
In terms of would I do it or not, probably not. That's only because I'm in a serious relationship and, I don't know, seems a little off to me I guess.
In terms of whether or not it makes you gay, this is how I'm going to answer: If you are comfortable enough with your sexuality, then nothing you do can really make you gay. For example, I went to something called a Rocky Horror Show this weekend (look that shit up!). There was one guy who was obviously uncomfortable, yet "straight" whereas the rest of us who were straight were laughing our asses off and having a great time!
The only thing that makes you gay, is being gay. Do you have an emotional attraction to the friend? Do you have a physical/sexual attraction to the friend? If you do, than maybe it's worth considering: Am I fully straight? If you don't, than it's just experimenting and completely normal.
PS: It is also completely normal to be gay. After reading that over it might have come out as biggoted.
Tilico18
August 13th, 2012, 12:28 AM
I don't think its gay, just normal. I wouldnt do it, but if you are comfortable, then go ahead!
jaycee.broham
August 13th, 2012, 03:46 AM
Ive been there
Wesl3y
August 13th, 2012, 04:24 AM
I have, it was fun. I didn't plan it, it just happened while watching porn. Done it with lots of friends and still do.
Dinozzo
August 13th, 2012, 06:27 AM
I do several times, always fun !
deathmoonO2
August 21st, 2012, 06:57 PM
no. It's not gay. You're just being curious.
RunnerForLife
August 21st, 2012, 08:04 PM
I definitely would if I had the opportunity to. I haven't yet but if you both want to, why not!
AlphaWolf
August 21st, 2012, 08:42 PM
i have a really good mate, we are both totally straight and i could have the opportunity to jack off with him. would you? Anyone been in the same situation? Is this gay or anything and scare him lol? Was it good or did it damage the friendship or anything..
Thanks guys
i would JERK off alone jst me
PinkFloyd
August 21st, 2012, 08:45 PM
I can't do that kind of thing with another guy. When you think about it it really isnt that gay at all.
CallMeAnthony
August 21st, 2012, 08:52 PM
Well dude it could damage the friendship if he is not totally comfortable with the whole "situation" But its pretty normal man your just curious
karejeet
August 22nd, 2012, 07:57 PM
it happens with me already, we are both soo kool about it, love him
deathmoonO2
August 24th, 2012, 06:07 PM
i've never done with a friend actually. but if he will ask me, why not?
John02Sandler
August 26th, 2012, 03:17 PM
its fun and i think it help our friend ship grow
JimmyIsNowAMan
August 26th, 2012, 03:26 PM
nothing wrong with it. i'd suggest trying a j/o circle with more than just you and your friend. if it goes ok then you two can do it together.
Mark Jackson
August 26th, 2012, 07:05 PM
definitely not
saul1026
August 26th, 2012, 10:17 PM
i have done that two
Aidoon123
August 27th, 2012, 02:07 PM
When im older i would do it with a close friend
deeda95
August 27th, 2012, 02:25 PM
if you wanna, then go for it man, you can try it and see how it goes and what you think of it
nickbsteelers96
November 19th, 2012, 04:04 PM
I've done it before with friends its great fun. Nothing gay about it
airjordan97
November 19th, 2012, 08:19 PM
Sounds pretty normal to me.
harsh
November 19th, 2012, 11:44 PM
I would, it's more fun with a friend. If you both want to go for it. I don't think it'll damage your relationship as long as you're both cool with it and it doesn't become something you guys do more than other stuff.
zerosix22
November 24th, 2012, 12:36 AM
When you think youre comfy with it maybe you could try asking him on a joke manner if he says yes.maybe you could be more serious when asking the follow up question.it depends on how close you are.its fun.
xMr.CoolGuyx
November 24th, 2012, 12:47 AM
I've never done it. But I guess if it's mutual between both of you, then go ahead. Not really gay, just trying new things.
alexkun
November 28th, 2012, 07:31 PM
oh yeah.. i would do it without hesitation.. :D.. and its perfectly normal.. i have done it with a few friends.. im bi.. but some of them are straight..
ThatGuy69
December 30th, 2012, 01:44 PM
If I were you I would it is great fun
Gigablue
December 30th, 2012, 02:50 PM
There's nothing wrong with it, but I probably wouldn't do it. I wouldn't want to risk creating awkwardness.
PaPa
December 30th, 2012, 04:10 PM
It's not gay,you're just curious.
nick666
December 30th, 2012, 06:43 PM
I went as far as bjs with a friend of mine. At first it was awkward after but now we are closer than we were before. Only do what you are comfortable with though
BlokeMan
December 30th, 2012, 07:37 PM
I certainly would, as long as it was a close friend, who i feel i trust. It's a great experience to have man, really is. Helps you become closer with who you do it with, well it did in my experience any way. Go for it i say man.
Steve Hala
December 30th, 2012, 08:17 PM
I have been there and it is tough. Unfortunately the friend i decided to do it with wasnt as close as i had though, so it did hurt our friendship a little but that was only temporary and it was just not the right person. If you think he is and what not, then by all means go for it but you have to be ready for whatever happens. Just remember that you could loose a friend or you could gain some really great trust and closeness with him too. Also, it doesnt make you gay at all. Its totally normal at this age to be experimenting. its just a part of growing up.
This guy has it right man! Dont do it unless your ready for either of the outcomes
Alabama_18
December 30th, 2012, 09:31 PM
Me and my frat bros are always jackin together. it's normal, dont worry.
MikeyB
January 3rd, 2013, 04:59 AM
Guys are just curious simple as that. I would do it.
hollisterboi95
January 3rd, 2013, 05:26 AM
If I were you I'd go ahead and do it. I've done it with a few close friends before and it was pretty fun. Make sure that both of you are comfortable with this though. If you're not completely comfortable it could make things really awkward. Also keep in mind that when you do these thing it could mess up the friendship if things don't go well. It's definitely normal though! Good luck!
Lovelife090994
January 4th, 2013, 03:00 AM
i have a really good mate, we are both totally straight and i could have the opportunity to jack off with him. would you? Anyone been in the same situation? Is this gay or anything and scare him lol? Was it good or did it damage the friendship or anything..
Thanks guys
Typical of puberty, normal.
Have I done it? No. Will I? Maybe not.
CuriousDude97
January 6th, 2013, 04:01 PM
I would, but i would only do it if he wanted to to.
BakeBake
January 7th, 2013, 01:53 AM
yeah it is perfectly fine, and it is not considered gay. People don't understand that gay means that one man is in love with another man and wants to marry him and spend the rest of their lives together.
yerman
January 7th, 2013, 01:54 PM
I've done it with plenty of friends, doesn't mean you're gay. Just experimenting really it's just hormones. But if you're concerned that it might ruin your friendship be careful!
Leon03
January 7th, 2013, 03:37 PM
Last weekend my friend stayed over. I was tempted to get him into some experimenting in the first place. Now I am really glad I resisted the temptation.
Milo141
January 7th, 2013, 05:10 PM
I've done it, it's very enjoyable, if you get the chance, give it a go!
billy789
January 8th, 2013, 07:14 PM
totallty normal i do it all the time
peter1999
January 9th, 2013, 05:10 AM
me and my friend jerk off together but since their is to of us we can go under the one bed so we just strip pour pants and start going at it while watching porn it not gay
Ethan15
June 16th, 2013, 06:17 PM
I would do it for the experience it is not gay.
Ariesboy
June 16th, 2013, 07:38 PM
I defenitly would
Tenoramic
June 16th, 2013, 07:57 PM
I would never know straight guys play together !
torcon4421
June 28th, 2013, 06:21 PM
id go for the opprtunity. ive neer been in the situation but id like to ahah. youll be fine
daul10
June 28th, 2013, 06:39 PM
i would jack off with a friend
Panda27
June 29th, 2013, 01:27 AM
I have been in the situation. Go for it
dreamur
June 29th, 2013, 01:59 AM
curious.. have done it before nothing to be worried about its fun lol
Lost in the Echo
June 29th, 2013, 02:06 AM
This was bumped from January. :locked:
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