How do I motivate myself to date/hook-up with girls?

[georgee1]

i'm not going to lie and really this isn't a troll post or something to make me feel good about myself. i really do get girls without trying the only problem is i never want them. but only when i'm like drunk or high do i want them. but the next morning i'm like wtf was i thinking i'm glad i didn't say anything to them. i only had 1 girlfriend and she came to me... i actually didn't like her at first but there was so much publicity at school for me to date her that i kinda got pushed into it. but then i actually started to like her, we broke up last year she has a boyfriend again but i'm not really bothered by that. the only thing i envy is that she has someone she probably likes and i'm here with nothing i feel lonely even though i have these girls that like me and want to hook up or date... i want this girl that has a boyfriend she's been with for almost a year now i guess and she liked me last year while i was with my ex. she sent my friend a pic to give to me to see her but i guess i denied her because i either wasn't attracted to her then or it was because i was woo'ed by my girlfriend at the time(lastyear) but this school year that just passed man i been so attracted to her so much. and i started talking to her near the the end of the school year like the last month... because i found out that she was the girl that sent the pic to my friend to forward to me. but i'm not really sure all this information was necessary i just like giving a lot of detail... but pretty much i feel tempted to mess around with her but she has a boyfriend.. so i kind of won't. as for these other girls that like me i denied all of them.... and they either hate me for it or just moved on... lol funny story i was at a party and all the girls that i denied(they were friends too!) were all in a circle right infront of me and i couldn't just walk away because i was at that party with my dude and i didn't know no one else there.


but yes i can't seem to push myself to date/hook up with a girl. at first it was because i was "waiting" for my ex to come back to me but i kinda moved on because it wasn't going to happen. but now i don't know why i can't push myself. i talk to girls just fine... maybe it's my lack of experience? does anyone know what i should do? let me know if you need any more info.

p.s. my hormones are wild right now and everyday that i don't have a girl for my own i feel like shit. i'm also going to be a Senior this next school-year so i kind of want to do this already. i mean 1 girlfriend and i'm a Senior, luckily no one at school suspects that i only had 1 girl haha. also i think all these girls want me because of my looks, one girl said i looked like wolverine and that's why i was hot, other girl just said she wanted to fuck me, same with her 2 friends, and my ex thought i was hot too! so maybe i can use this to my advantage. i also think the reason i feel so crappy is because i like to make girls happy i like to pleasure them or buy them things or do the little lovey-dovey b.s that girls love

[StoppingTime]

It doesn't matter if you've dated 1 girl or 20 in high school. People will judge you, then again, people judge everything, and shouldn't. Don't let that bother you. The key to any relationship isn't sex. There's no requirement saying, "You must date/have sex with X number of girls by X day." Just take your time.
It is hard to gain self-confidence, I've been there. Just think, "is this really something worthwhile?" If it is, then just take a shot. If you're rejected, whatever, just move on. But, it's always better to take a chance then to wonder what would happen if you didn't.

[georgee1]

yes and now that i think about it i asked this question before on another forum and got the same advice. thanks !

[inexracercjd]

ya just gotta try dude prolly get 1000 nos before a yes but when u get that yes it will be worth it cant be scared 2 hear the word no do u not do hw cuz ur afraid u will fail the class or are u not gonna apply for college cuz ur afraid the school wont acept u? besides just cuz ur friends are all dating girls or hooking up with them dont mean u have 2 maybe ur the smarter 1 waiting for the rite time but i mean ur gonna prolly find alot of wrong 1s before the rite 1 it seems like u only have self confidence when ur drunk or high and i think girls like guys that are confident in themself but not over confident 2 where they are cocky but good luck 2 u

[georgee1]

ya just gotta try dude prolly get 1000 nos before a yes but when u get that yes it will be worth it cant be scared 2 hear the word no do u not do hw cuz ur afraid u will fail the class or are u not gonna apply for college cuz ur afraid the school wont acept u? besides just cuz ur friends are all dating girls or hooking up with them dont mean u have 2 maybe ur the smarter 1 waiting for the rite time but i mean ur gonna prolly find alot of wrong 1s before the rite 1 it seems like u only have self confidence when ur drunk or high and i think girls like guys that are confident in themself but not over confident 2 where they are cocky but good luck 2 u

hey bro that was totally it thanks man. i took everything u said and understood it.

[FreeFall]

Just do what comes to you but be sure to think it all through. There's nothing wrong with never having dated 18 girls before graduation. Some of my class graduated only having had 1 significant other, some broke up never having had a relationship. All's well (:

[Abnormal]

I'll be single till the day I die but I don't really care. Relationships are bothersome anyways. Why would I want to care about other people when I can care about myself? IE, getting a good job, supporting myself, living my dreams, getting mad cash. Etc. Getting into a relationship with someone is a secondary goal.