Gay, bi, curious, guys do you like feminine or masculine guys

[Rain2011]

Which one would you like masculine or feminine or both :D

[Losing Sanity79]

I would love to have the guy with both.

[Thunder1117]

more masculine, no offense, but i dont like guys who try to act so girly, i want a man.

[Abyssal Echo]

I like a sensative but masculine guy

[HOLEinyoursoul]

I like a good mixture of masculine and fem. I like boyish naive guys a lot.

[Red-X]

a little bit of both, more manly than femmie tho

[RoseyCadaver]

I like someone who doesn't restrict themselves. I can't say I prefer either, but love a good mix.

[ZzKingz]

Looks and acts masculine, but has a feminine side.

[Sonic Boom]

Someone who looks feminine but has a masculine character.

[Danny_boi 16]

I think a guy needs both qualities. I don't want a more feminine guy, but a guy that shares his feelings.

[Eric57]

I like a masculine guy. No offense to any guy here who is feminine, but I couldn't date a fem guy, simply because it's just a little too much for me. I like a guy who is gay, but you wouldn't know it unless they told you. I'm not big on guys who sensationalize their sexuality. Just not my type.

[horizonlooker]

Definitely a masculine. But not too masculine.

[Slashpoint001]

I Love feminine guys more then masculine guys, but a little muscle never hurt anybody ;)

[CrossingtheCourtyard]

I generally like people who screw with roles/boxes of masculinity and femininity [so, either androgynous or something], but if I had to say, I suppose I lean towards feminine guys.

[Asiandude]

I like the shy feminine guys that are like sweet and stuff but then again I like the masculine jock type hahaha

[TigerBoy]

Blimey I want a bit of all your guys having read that :P

My boyfriend is spot on for me. Sensitive but male with it. Although he's younger he knows what he wants and can be assertive without being ridiculously macho about stuff, which I like. Gracefully masculine.

[Lucky_socks]

I much prefer feminine guys. I don't think it's something to be ashamed of. I just prefer the girly voices, long girly hair, figures without body hair, often total whimps and oversensitive, etc. I've been trying to be like this myself lately. I can like a guy who is buff and masculine as well, but I just prefer the feminine ones. That T word... am I allow to say that here?

Like I said, I don't feel about it. A feminine guy can still be less "gay" than a masculine guy, imo. All the different types of gay guys fall under the same umbrella, and I think we should all get along and respect the different types, rather than saying bad things about gay guys who happen to act more girly. Just my two cents.

[companioncube]

I like a guy who masculine, but can also be sensitive and understanding :)

A little bit of both, but more on the masculine side! :D

[GaySiren]

both alot but i prefer masculine a lot more but i still love feminine <3

[jemmytheking]

i like a guy with a good balance

[Antagonist]

Both, honestly. My bestfriend is what the world would consider "emo" and "scene" which is a bit feminine, but he's still hot. Then masculine guys... Whewwwwwww ;)

[Neptune]

Masculine. No offense meant, but, if I wanted a feminine type of person - I would date a girl.

[TigerBoy]

Masculine. No offense meant, but, if I wanted a feminine type of person - I would date a girl.


I understand where you are coming from, I like boys to be themselves, the issue I have is with fakers.


A lot of guys project a macho caveman thing that is pretty fake (I notice it because I have different friends out of school and there's some different 'rules' (not that I care lol).
A lot of gay guys can do this stereotype girly thing which irritates me just as much when it feels faked

BUT

Some guys are just naturally manly (in which case, rawwwwr)
Feminine on a boy can just mean they aren't faking all that stuff like many guys

I guess why I'm posting is that if anyone said my boy (or me) was a girl I'd get really annoyed at them.

[RoseyCadaver]

Masculine. No offense meant, but, if I wanted a feminine type of person - I would date a girl.

Ok, so there is no problem with liking a more masculine guy, or even stating that, but when people pull the "If I wanted someone feminine I'd date a girl!" card, that's when my big mouth has to get in.

First off, putting gender roles, and gender stereotypes on people, especially in the queer community puts us ten steps back, and is quite honestly hypocritical. As gay and queer people, we're fighting the norm that you can only date the opposite sex,and that's what only qualifies as true love.

So just like you saying, you would date a girl if you wanted someone feminine, that's about the same as say being feminine makes you a girl, and being masculine makes you man,and there is no wiggle room. Just loving the opposite sex makes your love legit, loving the same sex makes you a sexual deviant.

There are many masculine and feminine men, and many masculine and feminine women, just because they might lean to one side doesn't make them less of what they are. [/endrant]

Maybe it's just my soap box, maybe it's because I'm an androgynous man, but something about that just makes me get wired up.

[Dimitri]

I will be very honest, I like them both. Joshua is the opposite of me, he is masculine and I am somewhat feminine...BUT he backs down really quickly, he is intimidated very easily BUT if you go after him I instantly become super masculine and basically the last person you ever want to deal with.

[aherst94]

Masculine build with a more kind, feminine personality!

[lukey000]

I like feminine guys. Masculine scares me a little.

[JustAnotherGay]

I actually don't care. As long as I get a boyfriend that loves me, I don't give two hoots if he's masculine or feminine!

[jaycee.broham]

Both.

[Skyhawk]

Masculine's always welcome with me.

[JimmyIsNowAMan]

Tend toward a more masculine guy but what really matters is that he's just honest about himself and how he acts.

[danny7]

i dont what them that girly like kurt from glee, more like blaine, but i wouldnt mind really

[Horizon]

I want a masculine man! Someone who can order me around! I am girly myself, so to have that more masculine counterpart is my dream! <3

[biteen95]

Definitely a masculine guy with a good bit of muscle

[Matt_2012]

I dont mind, as long as they love me...

[Extreme586]

I LOVE a guy who is manly (not necessarily packin muscle but you get me), bold, very outgoing and likes to laugh. I love it when they have a sweet/kind side to them. For example, they have their public image of being bold, strongly opinionated, not really feminine at all and then they are smiley and sweet around you, and do things specifically to you to make you laugh and smile!!

So I would have to say masculine if i had to go black and white w/ the answer.

[The Mockingjay]

I find overly fem guys annoying, but it's not too bad. If I could choose, I'd pick masculine, but if a fem guy is really nice, then I would deal with it.

[weston123allen]

Both

[TurboDieselBandit]

I kinda like the in between guy. I like it when a guy has a nicely kept body and isn't very harry. Basically I like a guy who's bi but its not obvious. :)

[james wolf]

I would like a nice guy. Abs and muscles is a bonus.

I don't want one of the stereotypical gay guys who is very much like a woman and wears pink ALL the time. Though I've never actually seen them in real life, but you know, the ones wearing latex or all-sequin suits in a pride parade.

I wouldn't care whether they like musicals (I do too :P), girl-orientated music, wore fashionable clothes or stuff like that.

It doesn't really matter. You don't choose who you fall in love with.

[duuli]

I like masculine guys. Everything about a guy can be sexy from his nose to his legs to his fingers. Abs don't do anything for me though.

[Ohthatguy45]

Mostly masculine but can have a lil bit of feminine in him ;)

[Thomas01]

I prefer someone who has both types of qualities. I want them to be the guy in the relationship and be assertive and strong (not too muscular). But then I also like guys that maybe wear some make up (not much). Not overly feminine or overly masculine

[TheRev]

i would like more muscular (no offense to fems). some one (who is like me) wouldnt know hes gay unless he told you hes gay. and also some one who can help me lift stage rigs and gear lol

[Pierce]

im gay in the closet and i gues im manly there is no way you would gues that im gay and i LOVE over thew top feminine girly gay guys even though i feel so uncomfortable around them cause im in the closet and dnt wanna seem gay. i needa come out at my own pace but i love feminine princess boys lol.

[Rukua]

Somewhat masculine,

[Cognizant]

I would want a more masculine boyfriend, but someone who would 'soften up' for me when I'm in distress/upset/etc.

[Magnus Bane]

I like both fem and masculine guys.

More fem though.

14 and gay:P

[Sleepwalking]

I like guys who are fairly masculine, but who still show their emotions, and don't have a "tough-guy" attitude.
I think feminine guys are really disturbing.
Being feminine to a degree is okay, but sometimes I hate being gay because of the fact some guys are basically girls in the way they act.
At the end of the day, they're male, not females.

[Sadworld]

Both ;) Bot I lean more on fem :)

[Twilly F. Sniper]

A guy with a balance of the two. One a lot like myself is most preferable.

[MattT]

I want a guy that will go dirt biking, fishing, playing basketball , video games, watch sports, but isn't afraid to talk about his feelings.

[Lovelife090994]

I'm not really in to guys but I'll reply anyway...

I have a few gay male friends but I prefer the masculine type because the feminine types actually almost creep me out. For a lesbian's company, I love the girly girl types but then again I like girly girls! Sometimes I do not care but every feminine acting gay guy I have met they were a bit annoying but sweet in their own way, and they would tease me because they would wear really nice perfume, and being in a crowded hallway I hated to find out that it was a guy not a hot girl who smelled so nice!
Ah well I digress... But anyway to me feminine is to females! That is it really!

[InfinantSilence]

I like masculine guys. I can't stand when a guy makes a point of itto act like a girl. I don't like when guys are so masculin that its discusting either though.

[anthonyvanzz]

preferably masc guys, but bottoms :p.

[Magnus Bane]

I like a good mix of both. Not too much muscle and not to sensitive either.

[Zenos]

Just depends on the guy for me.

[StoppingTime]

I want a guy that will go dirt biking, fishing, playing basketball , video games, watch sports, but isn't afraid to talk about his feelings.


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