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Pedro Fernandes
July 15th, 2012, 07:48 PM
So i have a friend that is a girl that once liked a boy, but that boy was a complete pervert, and the problem of that friend of mine is that she falls in love real quick without getting sense of what she is doing. When she told him by texts, he told her to meet her at a local abandoned park, where they eventually met. The problem is, when they talked, he suddently grabbed her and kissed her. She tought "so far so good" and kissed him back. But then she saw his true colours. He grabbed her and kissed her neck. She saw where that was going and told him to stop. But he didnt stop. He suddently bited her boob and she started screaming, but he kept on doing it. He stripped her clothes and she was only with her bra, when she started kicking him. She eventually kicked him in the nuts (according to her) grabbed her shirt and ran away. She dressed the shirt and gt home, with the mark of the bite on her boob. It was hurting. Her mom asked what was going on and she told that she was bitten by a dog, of course she was lying. The next day she told me that, and i got really surprised while she started crying while telling me that. I told her she was alright. Im the only one who knows it of her friends. What should i do? And is this rape? (there was no penetration or sexual act.)

president1234
July 15th, 2012, 08:27 PM
If there was no actual intercorse it would not be rape I think just assault, I would let her parents know.

StoppingTime
July 15th, 2012, 08:34 PM
As mentioned, this is not rape. However, that doesn't make it any less emotionally tolling than if it was. He clearly tried, so I would assume she is feeling similar to if it had actually occurred. I believe it could be assault or battery, but at the moment, pressing charges is not the most important thing. Make sure she is alright. Just talk to her.
Remind her it isn't her fault that it happened, and that she was not to blame for it. There was nothing anyone could have done, and she did the right thing. Once you are sure she is all right, ask her about telling someone (don't push this on her, though) and see what she says.

xXJust Jump ItXx
July 16th, 2012, 02:34 PM
Thank god it wasnt rape, but assault is still a serious thing.

Anselmo
July 16th, 2012, 05:02 PM
I agree that is not rape. Let things go on and if he tries to do it again, warn the cops or something.
If i was her, i would have my breast checked by a doctor.
What was he trying to do? Escacar pedra? What a stupidity to bite her breast.

BOBBY HILL
July 17th, 2012, 08:48 PM
the best option is to post about it on a forum online

Christheman
July 17th, 2012, 09:03 PM
assualt report imediatly

Mortal Coil
July 18th, 2012, 01:08 AM
Like people have mentioned, this wasn't rape, but it was close.

the first priority right now is her physical and psychological recovery. Physicpal shouldn't be a problem as long as the bite wasn't too bad, but psychological will be a challenge (I would know.) She would do well to get some counseling to try and prevent PTSD from developing, and once that is under control, charges can and should be pressed.

I hope only the best for your friend,
~Alex.

VictoriaGotaSecret
July 18th, 2012, 08:17 PM
it isnt raped but he might get something like assalt or attemptted rape(if that exsits in law)

momo....
July 18th, 2012, 09:18 PM
HEY PEDRO

I KNOW what it feels >.<

did she recoverd?

toobigforlife
July 21st, 2012, 01:46 AM
No it wasnt rape, but it was molestation and needs to be reported he touched you sexually whether he did it with his hands or with his teeth he still touched your body in an inappropriate way since he stripped her down he had to of touched her boobs, ass, or vagina so tell her dont be afraid to tell

West Coast Sheriff
July 21st, 2012, 01:55 AM
It is still sexual assault. She could press charges

Dabigdtc
July 21st, 2012, 07:14 AM
If there was no actual intercorse it would not be rape I think just assault, I would let her parents know.

Sadly this is true and depending on the ages and where you are there may be little (legally) that you can do about that part, but since he did bite her there is assault so I would report it to police

it isnt raped but he might get something like assalt or attemptted rape(if that exsits in law)

Sadly (at least here) I pretty sure it isn't I could be wrong sorry

Jim Ekon
July 23rd, 2012, 12:41 PM
There was no actual intercourse then she didn't get raped. Tell her to be careful

imless
July 24th, 2012, 01:56 PM
No! For me it was a rape case. Doing such things out of the girl's will? Not a rape?

The Chameleon
July 27th, 2012, 03:58 AM
You have to let her parents know

William_Evans
July 28th, 2012, 03:11 AM
It's sexual abuse but I think it would be counted as a rape too. I think you should find this guy and fuck him up ! ^^