i cant do it

[green]

i cant do it! I can not break up with her. so the girl im dating...i dont love her, if anything i view her as more of a friend. i cant break up with her because i dont want anyone to get hurt. the fact that we are in a sexual relationship makes it that much more difficult. I want to be by myself, I dont want a girlfriend and I dont want to be in a relationship. I need help

[ImCoolBeans]

You need to do what's right for you. Be honest with her and tell her that you don't want to be in a relationship. It's not fair for you; but it's especially not fair for her to be lead to thinking that you have these feelings for her where as you really don't. You're doing her an injustice by not breaking up with her. You need to end this before her feelings grow stronger and she gets hurt even more.

Honesty is the best policy, bud. Just speak the truth and it will all work itself out.

[Noirtier]

Exactly what Mikey said. You need to be honest with her. I was in a similar situation once with a girl, and I didn't know what to do about it. Then, one day, I just ended up talking to her and telling her the truth, because I couldn't go on leading her on like that, it wasn't fair to her. If you don't, well, like Mikey said, her feelings will grow stronger and she will get hurt even more.