Oral

[iluvlamp1414]

This past week I experienced oral sex for the first time. The girl who did it to me had done it a few times before me. So she supposedly knew what to do. When it came down to it... she had no clue. I was worried about her ruining it and making me orgasm to early. I had it completely switched around. She couldn't get me to cum. It was not very good.

My point is: are all women clueless about what guys like during oral sex?

[underoath12192]

Just cuz you had one bad experience don't assume all women dont know guys' needs. You'll find someone really good but sry to hear it was so bad you couldn't cum!

[dogman]

just b'se she coudlnt make you cum, doesnt mean all girls are like that

[Aηdy]

Well she won't know what to do if you don't tell her!

[Maverick]

Of course not. But maybe it wasn't her fault. It could be you. Some guys can't orgasm on oral sex.

[byee]

What was your relationship with this girl? Why was she doing this with you?

If it was just a hook up, chances are she was doing it not so much to share her deep seated, longstanding feelings of closeness and love for you, but rather to please you in the attempt that you'll pay attention to her and stay with her. This is not the stuff that brings out the best in people's sexual performance! And, if this is the case, then she's probably pretty inexperienced at what to do. The learning process (in most things, not just sexual ones) occurs best when there's a good relationship between student and teacher, where the basis is one of mutual respect. Not horniness (yours) and neediness (hers).

I think there's a reason why all the old folks say it's best to wait.

[MoveAlong]

Most girls wouldn't know that much. There's a lot of online articles about this to teach girls how to give a better blowjob and tell what usually works. Although, most guys can't orgasm with oral alone - usually half of it is masturbating by her or you.

I don't think you should be so hard on her saying "are all girls this clueless"? A lot of girls really don't know how to give a good blowjob - they have a pussy and not a dick, so it's different and they have to learn from a few times :P
You should talk this over with her or a future girlfriend and see if she either wants to have oral sex and if she knows how to do it. You're both new to it...so learn from each other! =]