My Situation

[DELETEACCOUNT]

Okay, as some of you may remember backin may I created a thread related to having a fear of death, this thread comes as an update and how things are different. THREAD. (http://www.virtualteen.org/forums/showthread.php?t=138301)

Lately I have been happy and sad about death just depending on my mood, but things can change by the second. I think it's the unknown that's beginning to effect me most, here is some of the things I know think of;

Does my granny's feel scared about death?
What happens when we die?
Does your soul become someone else's?
Do we just rot away when we die?
Do we have feelings or emotions when we die?

Some of the above can obviously be answered but most of them can't and I think that's what really catches me. I know fearing death is worse as nothing can be done to treat it as it will happen to us all one day.

I still fear loosing parents, aunts and uncles which is also hard to digest its just hard to imagine life without some of them.

Does anyone have any additional advice or support they can offer me regarding the old thread as well?

[Sudds3]

We know little to nothing about what happens after death, and you have to learn to cope with that. Because if you live life in fear of death, that means death has taken over your life...and we all don't want that because you have a purpose and it is going to take a lot of hard work and there will be death on the way to reaching your purpose, but it will all be worth it. Live life, and when those few moments before you die arrive, you can think back and remember how much you accomplished and how amazing your life was. All of the people you met, the things you did, and the places you went...all remembered in a short few moments. Then you can happily take your last breath knowing you left your mark on the world. And that, I believe, is the meaning of life. To leave your mark on the world in any way possible. No matter how big or small, your life will not go in vain as long as you work hard for it. Hope that helped! If you want to talk just drop me a message! Love to talk any time

-Adam