hurt:'(

[madea rocks]

I had a friend who was as close to a brother as ill ever have........ he stopped txting me about a month ago and idk wat to do..... i sent im like 2 txts and he didnt answer........ then today i saw him walking thru the neighborhood w/ another friend and now im rlly hurt..... idk wat to do...... advice anyone?

[Harley Quinn]

Try and stop him when you next see him and ask where you two are standing in terms of the friendship. If that doesn't end well, maybe it's time to move on and find another friend. These things happen in life and it sucks, but that's life.

[Noirtier]

Try and stop him when you next see him and ask where you two are standing in terms of the friendship. If that doesn't end well, maybe it's time to move on and find another friend. These things happen in life and it sucks, but that's life.

I agree with this. This has happened to me (on several occasions) and the only thing you really can do is go up to them and talk to them and ask what the deal is. If he hurts you and abandons you, then you should move on and make another friend. I know it hurts, but, like Siobahn said, that's life.

[Smeagol]

People are funny sometimes. I don't know, it's a really tough spot to be in. Next time you can, ask him about it. Maybe his phone inbox was full when you texted him. You never know, you can't make assumptions. Good luck!

[Breakeven]

Try and stop him when you next see him and ask where you two are standing in terms of the friendship. If that doesn't end well, maybe it's time to move on and find another friend. These things happen in life and it sucks, but that's life.

^ i agree with her and u should ask him what happen to make him behave that way? and if it didnt end up well or he just dont wanna be ur friend anymore than u should know that hes not a real friend "real friends dont walk away or just leave u" :hug:

[Upgrade_U]

just aproach your friend and try to talk things out

[madea rocks]

But idk wat i did!

[Sean4U]

I agree with this. This has happened to me (on several occasions) and the only thing you really can do is go up to them and talk to them and ask what the deal is. If he hurts you and abandons you, then you should move on and make another friend. I know it hurts, but, like Siobahn said, that's life.

All you can do is try to find out what has happened and see if you can fix anything if there is anything to be fixed...sometimes ar our age friendships come and go ....but I would try to talk with him just to see what the problem is and then if it can't be fixed...move on

[momo....]

gud luck

[Christheman]

Maybe you did something to provoke him. You should try ask him what happened.

[inexracercjd]

go 2 his house and talk to him see if something happened or if hes just moving on

[dontfiguremeout]

Man that's really tough! You have two options. First option is the easiest, which is trying to contact him by calling him/text, go to his house and see if you can talk with him, next time you see him go up to him and talk about what's going on. Now second choice is the hardest choice, which for most people is the hardest choice, which is to accept that he has moved on, and now you need to move on and find new friends. If he is treating you like this, then it's clearly a sign saying time to get new friends bro!

[DerBear]

Hi,

The way I see it as you have two options. Your first option would be to go contact him via some method e.g text/call or social networking site and arrange to meet up to do an activity or just to see him. This would be the friendliest option overall and you don't seem too pushy. You could then ask him some general fun questions and see if their is anything wrong with your friendship, as long as you are open with him it should be fine.

The second option would be somewhat more direct. You go to his house or if you see him just directly focus your attention on him and straight our ask what the problem is and then talk it out with him and be persistent until you find your answer.

I hope everything works out with you between you and your friend.

[eggy101]

Talk things out

[Desuetude]

But idk wat i did!
That's why you should go and find him, so you can get an answer as to why he's ignoring you. Just approach him, stay calm and be the bigger person and just ask what you've done wrong or something to that effect. I hope everything goes okay.

[jord16an]

that sux dude but maybe he just needs a change of pace could be temporary but u should deffinitely try to talk to him (face to face not in texts) about it to make sure its not a misunderstanding ruining a friendship

[Losing Sanity79]

The exact same thing has happened to me. I had a close friend, but he just doesn't talk to me. I asked him if I did anything, he said no. For you, just ask him whats up, then if things don't end well, just move on. I have.

[WearAngels]

if that goes around seriously , then you must have to move on and take a part of keeping also a distance from him. It make sense that you should also try not to think so much about him and everything in the past .

[imless]

I think that person has a deep reason for doing that thing, a reason that only him/her knows it.

[Lego]

Yes^