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Unsolvedmind
July 14th, 2012, 10:47 AM
It seems like no one cares about me except for my boyfriend cause my parents Are like always happy for my other brothers for when they do something but me its like I'm invisible and seems like they don't care for my boyfriend either and I just feel so let down. Someone please help me :(

Inventor2
July 14th, 2012, 11:01 AM
Im shere they car for you! And thats thier fault if they dont, they can be ass's and reuin the relation ship with thier son, but sont let that put you down! You are an amazing person! Just live life! Because your parents are going to be the ones that lost a great being...
Im always here if you wanna chat too:)

Harley Quinn
July 14th, 2012, 03:35 PM
It seems like no one cares about me except for my boyfriend cause my parents Are like always happy for my other brothers for when they do something but me its like I'm invisible and seems like they don't care for my boyfriend either and I just feel so let down. Someone please help me :(

It may seem like that, but it doesn't have to be that way, you know. Try and talk to your parents and tell them what you feel because I can assure you, if they know they'll try to resolve the issues. If you don't want to talk to them face to face, write a letter or something. That's what I did when I felt like I was invisible to them and like I didn't matter to them, but once they knew they made an effort to change. I'm the youngest so I also felt that my brother was the 'favourite' but it wasn't like that. Tell them that you want them to accept your boyfriend because he isn't going anywhere, I suggest you try and talk.

Maverick
July 14th, 2012, 08:52 PM
Siobhan has really sound advice. Talking to them is your best bet. Just remember to talk to them in a civil way and don't accuse them of stuff. Like don't say "You don't care about me" but instead say that sometimes you feel invisible and that they don't care for you as much. The important thing is to be honest without starting a fight or being hostile as that just leads to more problems. It may not be easy for them to accept your boyfriend but for some people it may take them awhile to fully accept or get used to it. As long as they aren't purposely making you feel bad or making snide comments you got to give them a chance to get used to the idea.

While it would be nice to have our parents approval and support on everything we do its never going to happen. I am sure they are still going to love you no matter what and that is truly what counts. At least they don't forbid you from having a boyfriend.

Unsolvedmind
July 17th, 2012, 11:49 PM
Well I really don't have time to talk to them cause there always working and I forgot to mention I am the middle one and my boyfriend's parents don't accept gays (living with me right now) and I wanna leave my family so I don't know what to do!?