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WaffleSingSong
July 13th, 2012, 10:51 PM
Im usually not an emotional person, Most of the times, I go with the flow and dont give a damn. However, I am really aggravated at mom A LOT. And this is why.

I love my mom, I really do. But, we disagree on a lot of things. First of all, she expects me to do 10 things at once. I already doing something she said, but she asks for ten more things to be done in the next 5 minutes. I say "But, Im doing this..."

"...NOW!"

And she gripes at me because I work slow when she works fast, but sloppy. Combined with I do not eat nor sleep that much (I read too many creepypastas and Im really not hungry during the day) she thinks something wrong with me. Which I am perfectly sane, at least on my accord.

And she does not take the littlest bit of criticism. Like, when my parents were fighting two years ago (again, im not emotional, its fine XD) and my dad left the house. Fearing that dad was going to come back,she wanted to leave the house, with me, and I did not want to go, because of two reasons.

1. I wanted to be completely neutral.

2. It was my home, and I did not want to leave. I felt comfortable.

I did not yell at her, but I stressed that I did not want to go. Then she said "FINE!" and left. So, I played Oblivion for about 1 hour and watched T.V for 15 minutes until she came back. When she did, She said "My room. Now." and I said ok, She told me that I was being rude and out of control, and that she was about to put me in court for being an out of control child, and I did not even yell at her! I loved her, and gave her the most support though the whole ordeal (One other brother was in Afghanistan, the other was in god-knows-where) and she goes batshit because I wanted to stay out of it.

Last reason, She always enforces me to go to church. Ether that, or im grounded. I read the Bible willingly everyday along with the Manifesto and the Qur'an (I love all three books, even if im not Muslim, its very interesting). But she doesn't listen. Besides, churches are not only boring, but corrupt and you have to "fit" in with there community or your an outcast. She also does not like the fact that I am a Marxist, and she tries to change me everyday, with backfiring, but annoying, effort.

Is this normal? Or is one of us crazy? Please, tell me.

Darknova8
July 13th, 2012, 10:57 PM
Oh .... you play oblivion :D

btw you seem completely normal my parents fight and such all the time but they won't divorce because of me.
But your mom sound very emotional and a bit hipocritical.

Noirtier
July 13th, 2012, 11:28 PM
Well, in all honesty, she is your mother no matter what and for the time being you have to live with her and do your best to get along with her. HOWEVER, she sounds more than a bit over the top, overly emotional, overreactive, controlling, and like she holds very high expectations. Parents do fight in every household, and there will be spats between children and their parents in every household, but she sounds more difficult than the typical mother. In a lot of ways, she sounds like my grandmother, both now and when my mom was growing up. My mom loves her, but it was just very difficult to live with her because of her commandeering personality. The big difference was my grandma wasn't home much when my mom was growing up, and it sounds like your mom is.

WaffleSingSong
July 14th, 2012, 02:02 AM
Oh .... you play oblivion :D

btw you seem completely normal my parents fight and such all the time but they won't divorce because of me.
But your mom sound very emotional and a bit hipocritical.

Yeah, I love Oblivion. I believe that in all honesty, with Skyrimian graphics and features, can blow Skyrim out of the water. It just has a lot better "feel" to it than Skyrim.

But with the hypocrisy, I realized you hit it right in the ding dong. She is always saying how she is a tough girl, and then cries sometimes when she gets in with Dad.

Well, in all honesty, she is your mother no matter what and for the time being you have to live with her and do your best to get along with her. HOWEVER, she sounds more than a bit over the top, overly emotional, overreactive, controlling, and like she holds very high expectations. Parents do fight in every household, and there will be spats between children and their parents in every household, but she sounds more difficult than the typical mother. In a lot of ways, she sounds like my grandmother, both now and when my mom was growing up. My mom loves her, but it was just very difficult to live with her because of her commandeering personality. The big difference was my grandma wasn't home much when my mom was growing up, and it sounds like your mom is.

Yeah, she is pretty controlling, and Im a quite rebellious thinker (maybe just because im smart?) And I do love her, a lot, but you still need to have an aspirin ready at all times when your near her.

Darknova8
July 14th, 2012, 02:56 AM
Yeah, I love Oblivion. I believe that in all honesty, with Skyrimian graphics and features, can blow Skyrim out of the water. It just has a lot better "feel" to it than Skyrim.

But with the hypocrisy, I realized you hit it right in the ding dong. She is always saying how she is a tough girl, and then cries sometimes when she gets in with Dad.



Yeah, she is pretty controlling, and Im a quite rebellious thinker (maybe just because im smart?) And I do love her, a lot, but you still need to have an aspirin ready at all times when your near her.

I totally agree with u about skyrim. Did you hear about the elder scrolls online any thought on that.
But i digress my mom can get extremely annoying too does the same stuff ever wanna talk just message me btw.

Noirtier
July 14th, 2012, 04:34 PM
Yeah, I love Oblivion. I believe that in all honesty, with Skyrimian graphics and features, can blow Skyrim out of the water. It just has a lot better "feel" to it than Skyrim.

I completely agree here, I LOVED the storylines in Oblivion :P But back to the point...

Yeah, she is pretty controlling, and Im a quite rebellious thinker (maybe just because im smart?) And I do love her, a lot, but you still need to have an aspirin ready at all times when your near her.

I will say it is more difficult when you are smart because you realize things other people don't. And the aspirin thing, yeah, that's my grandma :P Anyway, again I would recommend just doing what she says, albeit at your own pace, and try and shrug off a lot of what she says because she doesn't mean all of it.

turtleman
July 16th, 2012, 10:56 AM
If she does take you to court, I really hope the truth comes out. You seem like a completely fine child, and hopefully what will end up happening is that sh will get the help she needs.

momo....
July 18th, 2012, 09:31 PM
i now how it felt >.<