i don't know if i'm gay or not..

[sam_idk]

ive had a bunch of girlfriends in the past and i LOVE girls.. but lately ive been having dreams about being gay. like last night i had a dream me and my friend were at a sleepover and gave each other handjobs.. and idk why but i want it to happen in real life. does that make me gay..?

[StoppingTime]

This doesn't make you gay at all.
During puberty, your hormones have a way of making you think about things that normally would never consider. It's just a part of puberty, and most likely, just a phase.
It could last anywhere from a few months to a year or two; there's no way to tell.
Really, you'd have to physically and emotionally attracted to guys to be gay, but that's something for you to decide.

[Green Arrow]

It doesn't mean you're gay at all. It just means that you want to experiment which 90% of people do anyway. :)

[TheMatrix]

Puberty for Boys :arrow: Teen Sexuality
This is more of a sexuality than puberty issue.

[RachelW]

No just makes u what to explor ur sexuality, nothin wrong with that.

[Silver Fox]

Probably just hormones :) Nothing to worry about, and most people experiment anyways.

[SkeptiqL]

Nothin wrong with it u just wanna experiment :)

[SamB]

No, it makes you curious and want to explore new things.

[Sean4U]

This doesn't make you gay at all.
During puberty, your hormones have a way of making you think about things that normally would never consider. It's just a part of puberty, and most likely, just a phase.
It could last anywhere from a few months to a year or two; there's no way to tell.
Really, you'd have to physically and emotionally attracted to guys to be gay, but that's something for you to decide.

Dreams are just that....dreams....You could be curious and be thinking about your friend and it happens..most guys experiment at some time or another and that doesn't make them gay so a dream is not indication....don't stress over it ...let what happens happen.

[KenBoy6]

Its your hormones taking over

[Olly James]

i wouldn't say your gay, if your physically and sexually attracted to girls but only sexually attracted to boys then you're probably just curious.:)

[SkeptiqL]

i wouldn't say your gay, if your physically and sexually attracted to girls but only sexually attracted to boys then you're probably just curious.:)

I second this :)